[Margaret Pilkington]

C'mon Big Joe...you told me that your wife took it...so by that admission it is NOT a selfie....and some time back I think I told you that it was a very presentable picture.

No, you know the kind of thing I mean....those who try to look 'cool' never do....the 'trying' prevents it.
You are either cool(and that is another abhorrent term) or you aren't....if you are, then you already know it and don't have to try....and if you aren' t then 'trying' is very sad because it means you are not happy with yourself....and only you can do something about that.

I guess that much of this 'selfie' obsession is because the youngsters want to copy what the
Z listers are doing.
To them I would say...'Never be a copy, be an original that someone else wants to copy'.
Life as a monkey is far more interesting than that of a sheep.