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Old 31-10-2007, 16:15   #1
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Sad News - For those of you that knew our secret

There was a number of you who found out at the September meet that I was pregnant. Sadly this is no longer. We would be grateful if you don't say anything about it when you see us at the next meet, as it is difficult enough to come to terms with things without being reminded about them.

Speak to you all soon.

Julie & Ian
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Old 31-10-2007, 16:25   #2
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Speak to you all soon.

Julie & Ian
Sorry to hear that news, and also sorry to neglect your feeling of not mentioning, but I will, I'm sure that all the people that knew about it, will be disappointed for you, it is always sad when a pregnancy ends like this but, please don't hide it from your friends they only want to share your joys and console you through your losses.

Please let us share it with you, it will one day help.

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Old 31-10-2007, 16:41   #3
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Sorry to hear that and will respect your wishes if I am at the next meet. Though I have to say I agree with Less your friends are there for good or bad times. They are always willing to listen and offer words of encouragement.
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Old 31-10-2007, 17:02   #4
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I'm really sorry to hear that Julie.

You are a lovely family, so take care of each other, and enjoy that love.

G x
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Old 31-10-2007, 17:11   #5
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I'm sorry to hear that. I don't know you but feel for you nonetheless.

It's never happened to me personally although I do have friends that have gone through it so I don't know what to say really.

Chin up. Keep trying, it'll happen.
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Old 31-10-2007, 17:29   #6
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Sorry Julie and Ian to hear that.
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Old 31-10-2007, 17:33   #7
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My thoughts are with all three of you...take care of yourselves

and loads of hugs and love xxxxxxxxxx
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Old 31-10-2007, 17:57   #8
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im really sorry about yor loss i know what your going through we lost a baby at 23 weeks in to my pregnancy time will heal
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Old 31-10-2007, 18:55   #9
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Old 31-10-2007, 18:59   #10
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Sorry for your loss, nothing will be able to replace your loss but I hope that you will cope through it and heal in time.

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Old 31-10-2007, 19:29   #11
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Hi all the way from Canada. I have suffered through six miscarriages. Three before the birth of my first daughter, Justine who is now 21, and three between her and our second daughter, Colleen who is now 18. Funny enough though after Colleen was born the doctors pretty much told us that we should go on with life and enjoy our two girls because we couldn't do this alone.....we had a lot of medical intervention for these two.......10 years later as I turned forty....guess what.....I was pregnant with my third daughter, Holly. Holly is now 10 and thankfully is still living at home. Our older girls are off at university in other cities.......So keep your chin up and keep smiling...I noticed you have a two year old so you know you can do it! And watch out when you turn 40!!! ha ha

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Old 31-10-2007, 20:05   #12
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Really sorry to hear that, love to you all xx
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Old 31-10-2007, 21:09   #13
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I am sorry to hear this sad news....although we haven't ever met I feel like I know you from the forum.
It is really hard to lose a baby, and it is hard for us to know what to say, however, I do know it is better to say something than to say nothing and pretend the baby never existed. Yes it is painful for you, and you will shed tears, but at least if people offer you their heartfelt sympathy, you will know how many people care about you. Kindness and concern can make you weep, but the tears will heal you.....take care of one another, talk to one another and take time to grieve over your lost little one, Love to you both.
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Old 31-10-2007, 22:16   #14
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oh im so sorry for the three of you, loves, hugs, kisses & prayers for you x x x x
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Old 01-11-2007, 00:42   #15
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I am going to respect your wishes Julie.You know were we are if you need an ear or a shoulder.
Love to the three of you. xxx
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