[Margaret Pilkington]

Taddy, when we married I took his name, I wear his ring which indicates that I belong to him…I thought that was what marriage meant.
Are you saying that him belonging to me is a bad thing? Or that me belonging to him is something that is wrong?
I am just asking out of interest.
Taddy, if he had not ‘belonged’ to me he would not be sitting opposite me right now…he would be in an urn on the sideboard.
With the greatest respect, you do not know the hurdles I have leaped for him…over the last 18 months I have gone into battle for him to get the medical care he needs(most of this is because I KNOW what he needs because of my past life)…why?
Because he belongs to me. If that concept offends you then I feel sad for you.

I hope most sincerely that you BELONG to Hazel in the same way.

Now I am going to do what Mick would have done and say this is a major thread wander and if you want to carry on this conversation it does not belong in this thread…start a new thread if you think it has legs