[sarah]

Really just stay out of it, it's a different matter if you are friends with one of these people, but this situation just has the potental to be incredibly messy. It's up to the guy in question, his decision and therefore his potential mess, he's the one with alot to loose at the end of the day and if it happens it's his own fault. Good luck to all concerned I say. What people don't know, don't hurt.