Is Four To Many Weddings ?
 

On reading the report of the fourth marriage of Blackburns Bert Jolley, is four times to many times to tie the knot, three times to the same person. Would you:confused:

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my dads been married three times, and now has a lovely fiance, let them get on with it, you only live once :D

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YES, it's just NOT FAIR, stop being so greedy:mad: I am still in the hope of a 2nd one .. so spread 'em around a bit ...:s_love::rofl38:

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I'm thinking about having another go kate, I'll ask her indoors if i'ts ok:D:D:D.

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Just get youself a toyboy - men over 50 need care and nurture which takes time and effort better spent on yourself.

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Hmmph .. who said anything about anyone over 50 !! :D

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good on ya kate ;)

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I always said that when my wife got to 50 I would swap her for two twenty five year olds to look after me in my old age........did'nt work out and I am still lumbered with the same one and I love her to death. :cool:

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I agree wholeheartedly with you Margaret, we men over 50 are often a waste of space, but then we aren't on our own in that respect are we? :D

As for marriage I'm of the opinion that once is more than enough, why should we not learn from our mistakes and avoid making similar in the future? :)

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Specially for Margaret:-

'To lose one husband, Miss Rothwell, may be regarded as a misfortune, to lose three looks like carelessness' :D

With apologies to Oscar Wilde.

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Kate he is free to anyone who can put up with him!:p

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Yes but not to the same woman! I wouldn't marry my ex if he was the last man on earth.:eek:

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perhaps the guy liked her cooking?

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I've not been married once but im not bothered. Its up to them what they want to do.

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Hang on you men, always appears like we women should be honoured to be taken back and re-married to the same man, wonder what was good about him then that she married him again and again ... :D:D

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must have been the size of his---------------------WALLET.:D

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Nothing to do with him........The pots and pans (Presies) they got before have worn out and they need new ones.

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Well, one or t'other Cashman .. :D Sure not his DIY skills !

Seems a little masochistic to me .. think they'd have had more sense after the second divorce wouldn' you ? Is his new wife his old wife then ? or a different one ? :confused:

Royboy .. like that .. could have summat there .. :-)

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I didn't lose them - got rid :D - and tried again

I have been a glutton for punishment - only came to my senses when my hormonal urges waned.

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LOL .. get on the HRT Margaret, does wonders for your .............. hair and nails :D

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Took that for 7 years - just made my life more complicated
After all the hectic hassle I have had from men :rolleyes: I prefer my hormones the way they are, Thank you :)

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Margaret these two have just married each other for the third time. Are they mad?

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Thats what I thought.:confused:

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How old are they ?

Well, let's hope as the film title .. won't be 4 weddings and a funeral (metaphoric funeral of course)

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No, I don't think I would...not anymore.

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He is 59 and she is 54.:cool:

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Still plenty of time to have a few more then .. :D

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They say this time is for good and your tongue in chheek remark about a certain film could have some bearing, hubby has had two heart bypasses!:rolleyes:

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It's my ambition to marry and 'wear out' as many wives as possible, outlive them all, then have them all planted together on top of each other. Then finally me on the top, where us men should be.:D:p:p:D

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Well, Ianto...every man should have a dream to sustain him ! :)

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It helps take the burden off his woman :)

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Nothing wrong with having four weddings - it's the living with each of 'em afterwards that'd be the trouble :)

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I only got married the third time because someone said you get one free.... :)

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married four times?....why??
collecting rings or summat?...lol, if the first 3 didnt work out whats makes em think the fourth one will?

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Three times to each other, mad or what?:confused:

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I suppose you could say that it is the triumph of hope over experience.

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After three do'es you can hardly call them novices.....must be trying for a new experience or the rekindling of an old one.
Must be barmy :p:cool:

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This couple were on Trisha Goddard last night. One of their daughters was also on saying how their behaviour had had an adverse effect on her and her siblings childhood.

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I think Dr. Johnson already said it:)

My opinion: one is too many.:eek:

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Some people cant see past the 'big day'. The event itself with all its trappings and the attention, the assembling of relatives and friends, the prezzies, the feasting and drinking becomes addictive because it may well be the only time that marriage = fun - so has to be repeated.

At the tender age of 18 (almost 19) I remember planning my big white wedding (yes I was a virgin) for 7 months. I was oblivious to the Berlin Wall going up or anything else dramatic at the time.
Then when all that planning was done and I was walking down the aisle it dawned on me what I had done, I wish I had had the guts to say no when asked by the minister but I didnt. I have a lovely son from that marriage which I struggled with for 10 years, so it wasn't a complete waste of time, but that has given me insight into the blindfold that planning 'the event' can put on people.

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My elder daughter's partner has been divorced twice - from the same woman. They divorced the first time when their older son was 3 then remarried when he was 5 and divorced again when the 2nd son was a baby. He says he remarried her because of the little boy but she made his life hell and he couldn't live with her. I've met her - and I believe him! :D

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No they just like wedding cake,:),,,,Anyway if it was good enough for Liz Taylor and Richard Burton ,,,then why not..... (must be barmy.....te he )

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Hang on you men, always appears like we women should be honoured to be taken back and re-married to the same man, wonder what was good about him then that she married him again and again ...
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its obvious the mans a saint

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We'll in my opinion, as long as your happy that is the most important things, In "real" life it is fine, when referring to real I mean not this fake hollywood love where people fall for each other and get married only to be divorced a few months later and by the end of their life they've married 10 times with 5 kids to five different celebs!!!

Sorry, got a little off track there!

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What about your childrens happiness? You can't just disregard their feelings!! I don't mean you personally but one of their daughters was with them on the Trisha Show and she had been badly affected.

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My Mums been married twice as has my Dad. Now my Mum is very happily single and my Dad is planning his wedding to number 3. If they are happy then what does it matter. It has not affected me in the slightest.

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I'm not against people remarrying, I have been married twice. The couple in question were marrying each other for rhe third time. I have no problem with that either it was just the negative effect it had on their children that was worrying.

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Yes I suppose if the children were young it could have a negative affect on them. It must be pretty confusing for them.

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did any body see them on the trisha show last week

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I'm 27 and at 8yrs old me Mum and Dad devorrsed(bad spelling I know), meself and me younger sister aged 24yrs old wondered where dad was at first, but life moves on.

Thankfully he maintained contact over the ensuing years unlike some fathers.

Dad re-married, Mum stayed single but life moved on, and still I received the love and affection one expects from mum and dad.

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Yes I did that is why I brought it back up. It can be potrayed as all sweetness and light but programmes like that show the other side and how their kids were really affected!!