Christopher Seymour
 

Hi everybody. I just happened to notice Accyweb today and, as an old Accringtonian, it would only be right to sign up. I'm glad that I did because not only might I have found some old friends but, I may have found the most special person in the world.

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If you are the person named in your thread, yes someone special to you was looking for you a while back, welcome to the site.

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Eeew do you mean we all gotta' buy the hat .. :D Mmm . maybe not .. just read t'other thread, but sounds like a Cilla moment anyway.

Welcome piltymon .. you sound fun. x

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Cilla can kiss you know where. I just want to give a chance for her to speak to her dad if she chooses. If Michelle just wants pictures then, that's what she shall get!

Your dad loves you Michelle. I named you. I named you because I loved you and I still do!

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If anybody can let Michelle know that I am here
great. I'm not here for abuse. Wouldf you like to be the one to make me leave?

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Hello and welcome, I remember you vaguely from school and from hanging around near the Marlborough Rd Chippy area (if you are the person mentioned in your thread). Me and my sister (Grego) lived at the chippy.

I don't know how to get in touch with Michelle, I only ever contacted her through PM on this site. Try sending her a PM, her user name is Blazey, she doesn't come onto the site very often so you may have to wait a while for a reply.:)

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I have PM'd her and asked admin to E=mail her to let her know that I have posted. You have me at a disadvantage because I don't know who you are. I spent more time at the Whalley road chippy LoL. What is your name?

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Some prick sent me a message saying that it made them sick that I was a father that "all of a sudden" wanted to find my daughter! Maybe if they'd have read everything they would know that She was looking for ME. Maybe it is a Cilla moment but, I've been trying to contact her for years. I stumbled on this site almost by accident. My head is in bits but that's not going to stop me being here for her. If she wants to say hi that's great if anything else then, I'll respect her wishes. I just want to give her the chance.

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hi welcome to accy web, how long as it been since you seen her?
sorry im a nosy cow:D

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18 or 19 years. It's not nosey, just curious LoL.

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that long!
how old is she now?

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19. We were separated when she was very young. I fought through the courts for years to see her but I was a tearaway when I was young and didn't stand a chance.

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Chris,
I think I knew you when we were kids, I'll PM you my real name.

Whoever you are welcome to teh site, as with teh real world you do get some people who will be generally abusive, Ignore them and take full advantage of teh opportunity in front of you.

Ian

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oh i was just gonna say there must have abeen a reason why you havent been around, where are you now? it would be weird if you only lived around the corner!!!

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I'm in America LoL. I doubt that's around the corner LoL.

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oh yeh whereabouts?
id love to go there! especially canada, prefer it to america:D
bit far if she wanted to see you isnt it?

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Amen for Accyweb. I've found a guy I used to go to school with. It was great to reminisce over old memories. I'll certainly be keeping in touch. I wonder if there are any other ex Moorhead pupils that left in 1984 on here?

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Piltymon......I wish you luck and I hope Michelle does get in touch......I love happy endings.

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Better still are happy beginnings.

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It's not that far these days and flights are getting cheaper by the day. She could have a holiday of a lifetime LoL

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I'm in Alabama btw

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I can but hope. Thankyou for wishing me good luck Margaret.

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Believe me.... There are a few of us who left in 1984..:D

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If there are I'd love to hear from them. Maybe they could PM me their names?

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i hope your daughter does come back on & contacts you piltymon, good luck & best wishes.

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Thanks Mez, I appreciate that.

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I was told about this today. I am in shock and dont really know what to say... that is if it really is who you say you are.

Oh and I got a PM off your friend who i've talked to before, never got one off you though.

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ooo i've come over all giddy!!! Is there a family reunion in the offing??:)

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I only signed upto Accyweb yesterday. You should have seen how shocked I was to find out that you were looking for me. Lancashire Lad knows enough about me to vouch for me. I'm also willing to answer any other questions to prove who I am if you like. Like you I don't know what to say either. I'm sure you must have questions.

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LMAO, nutter

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Glad you found Accyweb. Where abouts in Alabama are you? I have a little sister who lives just north of Birmingham.

Brian

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People keep posting nasty Karma to me and it doesn't seem fair that they don't say what their username is. Maybe they should know the whole story before they start throwing accusations.

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Just ignore it piltymon .. just 'words' by people who feel like being wicked without putting their handle to it. Sure the majority on here all wish you well with what we hope will be a happy re-union with your daughter.

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You will generally find abusive karma is only sent anonymously, treat it with the contempt it deserves.

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Centre Alabama

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Welcome (again) Christopher.:)

I really hope you find the special person you are looking for.

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Just read the whole thread.

Ignore the sad gits.

Life is way too short.

Seize the day.

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That's exactly what they are. Thankyou for putting it so well. Yes we found each other and we talked for a while.

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I'm really pleased for you.

Good luck.

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Yeah, don't let the cowards drive you off or anything. It's their very little bit of power!

Brian

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Thanks for your support Brian. It's appreciated. Most people on here have been really nice. It's only the ones calling me nasty things that are being nasty. Doesn't that make THEM the nasty ones? LoL

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Thanks for all the support that people have shown on here. I guess it just goes to show that there really are still nice people in the world.

Chris

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if they sending nasty comments....why?
maybe these people know you, and do know the fact:(....just a idea!
have you got in contact with her yet, i see blazey has been on!

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OK then, here's the facts. I did NOT abandon my daughter. I am NOT a dad that suddenly decided to care either. I fought through the courts for years to see her so if anyone wants to lay blame then you can lay it at mothers door. Mothers regularly use kids as weapons because they are bitter that the dad has left them etc. I've searched for years to find and keep in touch with my daughter. When people send me nasty karma and messages it just proves how small minded they are. You could post in a forum that the pope likes god and some idiot would argue the point. Maybe I did make mistakes in the past but does that mean that I should be shot at dawn? Why can't people let this older, much wiser man make some amends for not being there for his daughter?

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Just ignore 'em Chris; this place is a shining beacon to small minded individuals with too much time on their hands sometimes. It's great that you have found what you were both looking for; don't let them spoil it for you. The majority of us on here are genuine, nice people.

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I should probaby speak up here. At the end of the day, I think the court was quite capable of making the right decision with the scenario and I think although the decision wasn't what anyone wanted, I dont think its fair to lay the blame on the other person.
My mum did very well for me without a dad and there isnt anything in the world to blame her for, especially not a courts decision!

I think everyone deserves a chance to prove themselves but there isnt need to give them repeated chances. My mum let the decision fall into someone elses hands and they chose what they thought was right, so she left it at that. At least I didnt have to go through it all when I can remember it properly, because I dont want to know every single bad detail.
I'd rather just make up my own mind. I'm not a little baby now, im 18 years old and I think i'm now capable of making my own mind up.

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I've met some great people on here Lyndsey love and you're still one of the loveliest. Thanks love.

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Sometimes it takes a long time to realise that mistakes were made......and no man is lessened by admitting that he made mistakes.
Your daughter will make up her own mind about you and your motives...as she sees them....you just have to trust that her decisions will be the right ones for both of you.
It may not be until she has children herself that she really understand the complexities of marriage and children and the things that can, and do go wrong....with often very painful consequences.
I wish both of you good luck in trying to mend and renew relationships.

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She could have at least given me the chance to see you in a contact center. It would have been a safe environment with visits closely watched by professionals. Instead she went for the jugular!

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Maybe it was the best for me to not have to be aware of a split family. My mum chose what she thought was best for me and it didnt kill anyone. I dont feel bad about not being able to see you because I did fine without you.
You just have to get over it because its in the past, complaining about it and pointing out possibilities wont change the past anyway so theres no point dwelling on it.

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And that folks is the end of it. We'll make history instead of dwelling on it!

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I remember quite a lot of violence in the relationship toward michelles mother from yourself. Maybe that convinced the courts not to allow you access. Better safe than sorrow :rolleyes:

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i personally think that dad & daughter should e-mail each other ....you have found each other, now is the time to rebuild a relationship .but please not with others seeing it & adding their twopenneth ........good luck & best wishes to you both ...stay safe be happy .

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Words of wisdom from wonderful Mez.

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Maybe you should PM me with your thoughts. You remember nothing but what you were told. How sure are you that when you hear one side of a story that you are getting the truth? Give me a percentage!

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Who sent this as karma(anonymously like a coward would do)? >>

u have to have bad karma off me for being bad. no more talking about it now.

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lol well that was actually me as a joke... thought it was pretty obvious myself and I didnt think to put my name.

Guess im a big cowardly lion :Banane40:

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At least you were (wo)man enough to own up to it. I'm glad that karma doesn't worry me too much. I'm sure that someone will give me some good. Some people have already (Thanks for that, much appreciated).