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BIGBRIAN 17-09-2007 01:14

Looking for my children
 
father who has lost contact with Kersha phillips can any body help please

WillowTheWhisp 17-09-2007 05:10

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Do you have any more information such as age and last known location, school or something? Somebody may know someone else who may know her.

flashy 17-09-2007 09:45

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i know a girl called Kersha, not sure of her last name though, she'll be in her late teens early twenties now,

grannyclaret 18-09-2007 00:27

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I hope you find her,,, good luck....

BIGBRIAN 18-09-2007 09:42

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My daughter whent peel park primary has 2 brothers curtis and jacob used to live on manor st any help would be deeply appreciated

flashy 18-09-2007 10:02

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how old would she be?

Stanleymad 18-09-2007 12:46

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To be honest i'd be very careful about discussing minors on here especially after a seperation/divorce etc, people do not know the true circumstances regarding parents & their children under the age of 16/18, most cases there is an underlying reason or was subject to court case, whereas any information given 'could' be problematic for the children & resident parent, therefore could result on this forum too, something people need to bare in mind, also that u cannot be certain the reasons claimed or position ie father are true either & to the poster there are other official methods to try if the children u are looking for are minors, in this day & age u have to be careful is my main point.

lancsdave 18-09-2007 12:57

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Stanleymad (Post 471791)
To be honest i'd be very careful about discussing minors on here especially after a seperation/divorce etc, people do not know the true circumstances regarding parents & their children under the age of 16/18, most cases there is an underlying reason or was subject to court case, whereas any information given 'could' be problematic for the children & resident parent, therefore could result on this forum too, something people need to bare in mind, also that u cannot be certain the reasons claimed or position ie father are true either & to the poster there are other official methods to try if the children u are looking for are minors, in this day & age u have to be careful is my main point.

Good advice. Regardless of age if somebody does know them always best to ask them if they want to be 'found'.

Lilly 18-09-2007 15:37

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Stanleymad (Post 471791)
To be honest i'd be very careful about discussing minors on here especially after a seperation/divorce etc, people do not know the true circumstances regarding parents & their children under the age of 16/18, most cases there is an underlying reason or was subject to court case, whereas any information given 'could' be problematic for the children & resident parent, therefore could result on this forum too, something people need to bare in mind, also that u cannot be certain the reasons claimed or position ie father are true either & to the poster there are other official methods to try if the children u are looking for are minors, in this day & age u have to be careful is my main point.

Good advice. Sad but true.

WillowTheWhisp 18-09-2007 16:57

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Well we don't know yet if she's a minor. She could be an adult woman with a family of her own.

flashy 18-09-2007 16:58

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hmmm something's dodgy here, he's hardly given any details, ive asked him twice how old she is

lancsdave 18-09-2007 17:02

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Quote:

Originally Posted by WillowTheWhisp (Post 471879)
Well we don't know yet if she's a minor. She could be an adult woman with a family of her own.

Could be Willow, but still might not want her whereabouts to be known. If it was somebody looking for me it might be a debt collector and I've specialised in avoiding them :)

BERNADETTE 18-09-2007 17:17

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You would have thought that if it was genuine there would be more details, her age would definetly go a long way to help!!

MargaretR 18-09-2007 17:20

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Remember what happened when we put a father and daughter together a few months back - heaven forbid :eek:

WillowTheWhisp 18-09-2007 17:41

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But the forum is entitled "lost friends / family" so that's what it's for. If the person being sought is directed to the seeker and they communicate online they can then decide between them whether they want to meet or not.

WillowTheWhisp 18-09-2007 17:42

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Originally Posted by flashytart (Post 471880)
hmmm something's dodgy here, he's hardly given any details, ive asked him twice how old she is

Yes, I asked that too - it would help to know if we are talking about an adult or a child for a start.

Stanleymad 18-09-2007 18:13

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Well seems the case for me as for some of u saying it smells dodgy thats what prompted me with sketchy info, as for minors i think i've heard of one of the brothers, & are definately minors from child professional point of view again prompted my advice, so please be careful before submitting any help to the poster & that if u know them then ask 'the families or persons' permission whether its fine or not to pass on details for their sake 1st to ensure no harm is done to be on the safe side, probably best for anyone that is being looked for really as well. As i say there are other routes the poster can take legally rather than posting on a public forum especially if it is about someone under the age of 18 certainly, which the poster doesn't seem to mention age & nor offer of should the person themselves wish to contact, seems a bit suspect:confused: but rather be safe than sorry & conscious clear.

grego 18-09-2007 19:50

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I agree with Stanleymad, no details should be given unless you know the people involved want to be contacted.

WillowTheWhisp 18-09-2007 21:43

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Well if the children are minors I suppose that is up to the mother.

BIGBRIAN 18-09-2007 22:47

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Hi,the reason i do not reply quick enough to your questions is that i do not
have a computer,i am using a friends,i came across this Accy website by
chance when i was browsing at places i used to work at when i lived their,i was a doorman.
There is nothing suss or dodgy going on.
Kersha is now 17,her brothers are 15 & 12(approx).As Kersha is now 17 i feel that she is at an age where she can be contacted & i hope i can find her,as some of you say,yes it should be her decision if she would like to contact me,i hope she does...

WillowTheWhisp 19-09-2007 05:04

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Thanks for the reply Brian.

If anyone knows Kersha or the family maybe they can get in touch with her and direct her to read this thread.

Stanleymad 19-09-2007 08:26

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Thanks Brian, sorry if i sounded like a police sergent, but as u can appreciate being a father & the possible abuse of internet forums, i had to put the advice out there, for everyones sake, as i knew person would be U18, which in legal terms the age u become an adult in the eyes of the law - hence u couldnt go thro some other routes. Also posting on public forum also being aware of her brothers which are still young yet, so i had reason to advice. Hopefully anyone knowing your daughter can pass on these details & ask her permission before submitting anything or she may contact u herself, hopefully resolve will come soon:D

WillowTheWhisp 19-09-2007 09:12

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OK I'm just playing Devil's advocate here but how did you know she would be under 18 Stanleymad? Flashy had mentioned she knew a Kersha who was late teens early 20s which is why I said it could be an adult with kids of her own if she was the one.

Stanleymad 19-09-2007 09:21

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As i said willow i formally worked at the said school as a TA so i knew of one of the brothers & as he mentioned the brothers, which is why i had a feeling she wasn't far off. So my posts were based on same ethics on this situation, sorry if i butted in.

WillowTheWhisp 19-09-2007 10:47

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No, that makes sense.

notts 19-09-2007 10:55

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alright big brian remember me dave perry when we worked at spin form

natasha29 20-09-2007 20:47

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i no the girl, shes my sisters friend, they got college together, ive told my sister to show her this forum post an maybe she,ll get in touch,
good luck to you both

BIGBRIAN 22-09-2007 01:41

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[quote=notts;472090]alright big brian remember me dave perry when we worked at spin form[/quote

WOW that place is a blast from the past,yeah i did work their many many years ago.Am suprised you remember me,hows things going with you.I vaguely remember your name as i am better at faces than names.

BIGBRIAN 22-09-2007 01:58

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Quote:

Originally Posted by natasha29 (Post 472528)
i no the girl, shes my sisters friend, they got college together, ive told my sister to show her this forum post an maybe she,ll get in touch,
good luck to you both

Thank you,thank you,thank you,i cant believe this,somebody knows her,this is fantastic :) :) :)

:Banane44:

Lolly 22-09-2007 04:15

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I'm glad someone knows who she is, but I think at any age then they should be able to decide if they should get in touch, I have no idea who my biological father is, but if he got in touch on here I would like to have time to think about if I should get in touch or not. But saying that it is my choice and I would need time to think about it. Not saying everyone is like that! Its up to the individual.

notts 22-09-2007 19:28

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doin very well brian married with 4 kids

notts 22-09-2007 19:33

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i was good friends with julie hill worked on the lathe behind you we worked with ian procter and barbera and sam and derick

Jae Swift 02-11-2007 00:44

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I know her!

She's going out with my best mate.. lol.

Kersha May Phillips right?

Jae Swift 02-11-2007 00:48

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I will let her know you want her to get in touch! I talk with her everyday.

onlyme 02-11-2007 08:58

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Hiya

Sorry but I think people need to be really careful here, even withjust speaking to the daughter about the contact. There is not enough details known, there could have been abuse, court orders could have been obtained and the kids may not necessarily have known what has happened (SORRY, I'M NOT SAYING THAT THIS IS TRUE IN THIS CASE SO APOLOGIES FOR ANY OFFENCE CAUSED, I MEAN IN GENERAL)

If a father has lost contact with his children, there is generally a reason, most of them completely innocent (we all know what b*tches women can be lol), I think people should just tread very carefully

Again sorry if any offence caused

Jae Swift 02-11-2007 14:34

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THEY'VE FOUND EACHOTHER NOW.

:)

They've met up and that! :D

BERNADETTE 02-11-2007 14:57

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Jae Swift (Post 487726)
THEY'VE FOUND EACHOTHER NOW.

:)

They've met up and that! :D

That is nice to hear:)

kylie baby 21-11-2008 17:45

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aw thats nice , i know kersha


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