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Why do women always assume that men, or should I say all men, are only wanting one thing from a woman. Can they not just seek a friendly relationship with no strings attached . And why can't we men assume the same that women only want our bodies without them thinking we are calling them TARTS. I watched a very young and very attractive young lady who was pushing a pram along the road today fall hook line and sinker for the whistles and remarks of 2 lads on some scaffolding. She stopped for a chat (for AN HOUR) was obviuously flirting with them and next thing she was going and getting them some dinner.... Who was after what, is it assumed to be the man as usual, because it seemed to me that the opposite was prevalant in this case. Are times a changing or what.

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Times are a changing Fm girl power is starting to mean something we doomed doomed women are taking over :xena_bana :bleedht: :end:

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i also think it is wrong to assume that men only want 1 thing from a woman

there are two ends to them you know ..... ;)

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You read the Positive Things About Being Female thread started by Neil woman are on a charge and ego trip as well as dumbing down guys.

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Women always complain about men's attitudes, but who on the whole raised men to think as they do? Women.



The hand that rocks the cradle musn't complain when it trys to bite it, or worse.;)

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You missed the whole point of the thread.

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i have more male mates than female mates. Always have done even in junior school. Have always got on better with blokes than females. As far as Im concerned some blokes particularly between the ages of 16-20 all they think of is women are for one thing and one thing only - its drummed into them from tv and magazines. Not by their mums but outside influences. Even in school in human biology its drummed into them about contraceptives not treating a girl/woman with respect. Once though theyve got out of the teenage years and into their twenties they grow up a bit not much but they seem to settle down and realise that they wont get anywhere without respect. But it does work both ways if a woman treats a bloke with respect she should get respect back. I know me personally wouldve given them some stick back if theyd have done that to me mind you no one whistles at me - unless theyre blind!

Times are a changing though kids are more streetwise nowadays than what i was when i was a kid and that isnt that long ago! Like we wouldnt have had the guts to nick their dads credit card and pay for porn on sky like what happened to one of my mates. His son is 14! Would you have done that?

Its all mainly to do with tv and magazines and books and radio. You look at all the tv programmes how they portray women and men.

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bob dylan said that in the 60s :D seriously though i wouldn,t give much credance to people that make assumptions, opinion based on fact is far more important in my book.

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Do allwomen assume that men are out for one thing only?

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would think that most men are fireman lol

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It works both ways now guys hit on girls and girls hit on guys its the way things are. As shillelagh says kids are more street wise and women have more confidence in themselves which is a good thing as they now give as good as they get. The women chatted to the guys for an hour and flirting with them and guys do the same talk and flirt so its evens stevens.

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I hit on anybody that doesn't run quick enough.:)

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Not with you cashy?

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How fast do they need to run?

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When they cross Hadrian's Wall I have to give up.;)

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Stopped by the border that could be intresting.:)

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thought all that was to do with the ale in preston! they couldnt drink it so they sodded off back home!

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No it was the dodgy ale in Derby that did it.

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I definitely think that girls are a bit more forward now, but I also think that it is possible to have a friendship with a member of the opposite sex without wanting anything else. Maybe I'm just lucky, I do have male friends who I wouldn't even consider going any further than friendship with....

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Lettie couldnt agree mre.

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I get on better with men than I do woman. I have male mates, and I agree lettie, it would be like hitting on your female friend. Just because you are friends with them, dont meant there will be anything else.

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well id like to think that after last nights show of support i can safetly say i have friends of both male and female!!!! thankyou all for the great defence!!!!! lol xx

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well said hun...i totally agree.... although in the past one of my male "friends" did try it on with me!!! it was just wierd!!!

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no-way fireman i am of the belief that any man that wants more than ONE is seriously brain damaged :D

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Drink has strange effects on some people :D

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oh I see what you were saying now Cashy lol.

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The things that happen with the demon drink even cherie blai would be wolf wistled at if enough was consumed.

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Dont give all your fantisies away Spuggie!

Seriously though, I have some male friends and have never thought they wanted anything else and wouldn't want anything from them either.

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It aint a fantisy it is a nightmare thought. I'd have more luck with a parrakeet.

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You know when you have had a good session, when the neighbours light up afterwards :p

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Light up no I thought it would be banging on the wall and some very non complementory language through jealousy. :D :D :D :D

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lmao....im not moving next to either of you!!!!

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Hehehehehe, ...:p

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Strange though isn't it. If men make a move on a woman which is usually the way a courtship or romance or whatever progresses, he either gets a slap or some other sort of message to say " no I'm not ready for that yet" but usually it does not end the relationship. BUT......... If a woman was to make the same move on a man, then that would be a very different story. He would either be totally frightened off and never be seen again, or he would call her all manner of things because she did to him what he wanted to do to her.
Please Explain:-

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May be women are more enlightened than men!

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a man cannot say no! it proves it when a woman makes the move first.

like you said before when a man makes a move the woman can say no,but if a woman makes the first move the man cant hes too weak, his brain is just on pleasing himself and not his feelings or the womans feelings its just what he wants!:D

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Not all men fall into that catagory! :(

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is that a bit sexist ?

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lol...well i may look all sweet and innocent but apparantly ive scared men!!!!
why??? because i made the first move!!! im an impatient person sometimes!!!

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Whats good for the goose is good for the gander :eek:

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lmao...shouldnt that be GENDER!!! lol

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lost for words lol ?

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Crikey thats as rare as a blue moon in the middle of the day. :eek:

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ok then most men do!!

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which part??:p

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His brain is on pleasing himself? Some men like to think they are pleasing the woman, and that is just as important as his own pleasure.

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if the woman says no and he is pesistant on making a move do you seriously class that as pleasure for the woman? in my point of view i find it tables have turned and class it as the man that is nagging for once!

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Boo has joined womens lib

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No I dont if she says no then that should be it , thats what i am saying no means no

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Isn't it a fact that men between the ages of 16 and 24 think of sex on average once every 30 seconds? (or something similar) ..

Remembering my younger days (ah, what a memory!) it did seem that all too many young men were keen on collecting scalps (or some other anatomical bit) rather than building a relationship with anyone - which would not have been so bad but for the fact that if a girl did come across (usually after pleas of undying love, etc, etc) then she was classed as a slag and nobody wanted to know her.

Attitudes today are more enlightened, I think ---- and a woman is allowed (in most circles) to enjoy sex and be just as keen as men are. Which is just as it should be.

Anyway, what's wrong with being up front and saying "I fancy you - shall we give it a go?"

Just so long as all HE's after isn't a quick jump and then bragging to his mates ....

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[QUOTE=pendy]Anyway, what's wrong with being up front and saying "I fancy you - shall we give it a go?"
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i agree...its just that not alot of men like this idea!!! they still prefer to do the chasing!!! i even run slowly for them...give them a sporting chance!!! ;)

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I think that it would be a refreshing change for women to take the initiative at times and the same for men to accept that equality gives them the right to do so .

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Rindy only 24!! come he is almost twice that.

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I don't count, I'm non gender specific and am in a class of my own.

Besides my count is much higher than that.:)

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We know - The class of '69

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My formal education on this planet did start on my fourth birthday, January 7th, 1969.

Which makes you sort of right for a change.:)

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Sorry I made a typo. I should have put "classes in"