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cherokee 11-01-2007 23:56

the baby borrowers
 
Has anyone seen this ??
Its where a group of teenage couples move into the families home and take over the role of carers.
I cant make my mind up as to wether its a brave thing on the parents side or a good thing for the teenagers ..

Its on tv ..bbc3 now

what do you think?

garinda 12-01-2007 00:27

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The parent's knew their babies were involved?

I assumed they'd nicked them from outside of supermarkets.:D

cherokee 12-01-2007 00:58

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lol !!! G


yeah what it is ,is a group of teenage couples start firstly by each borrowing a baby for a 3 day period (which has just ended tomight) with very facinating results may i add..

then if they are still together haha ..the next task is a toddler for 3 days ,and then an elderly person ..

A qualified person is on hand 24/7 but must only intervene if they feel there is danger to the child/pensioner ,parents have been watching from another house close by on monitors and can also come in to give advice etc..at any time..
one couple had their child removed and two other couples are on the brink of seperating , but all have said what an eye opener its been to have a baby around and didnt realise just how hard it was going to be.....reality eh!!!

Well IMO if they thought it was hard with a baby god!!wait till they get the toddler in the next prog ..

But its a good prog and shows just how teenagers all so easy think it is to have such a responsibilty until it actually happens .. but it did make me think if i could ever hand my baby/toddler over to an unmarried inexperienced couple even for 3 days ...and i dont know ..
I suppose under those circumstances and depending on the temprement of the child maybe /maybe not:confused: :)

WillowTheWhisp 12-01-2007 07:15

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I think I'd be very worried at the prospect of handing over a baby to a couple of teenagers to look after for 3 days, even if they were closely monitored - it only takes a second for something to happen and by then it could be too late to intervene. Mind you teenagers babysit don't they?

jedimaster 12-01-2007 09:55

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i watched a bit of it and thought it was a bloody good experiment
might make these young uns a bit more responsible when it comes to getting pregnant
but i must admit some of them did very well

grego 12-01-2007 10:08

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I haven't watched the programme but saw it advertised, I know I could never let them look after my baby, even though they are supervised, I just couldn't do it.

panther 12-01-2007 10:14

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Originally Posted by grego (Post 365899)
I haven't watched the programme but saw it advertised, I know I could never let them look after my baby, even though they are supervised, I just couldn't do it.

same here grego!!

MUMMIBOO 12-01-2007 12:41

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I have been watching the programme and i have different views for different couples, the posh punk kids OMG he is great but she has alot to learn he did everything with the baby and around the house he even got up in the night he asked her to look after the child for a bit and she went off her head saying that she had made his dinner and his tea and that she was knackered HA what a laff get a grip girl!! he was gutted last night cos the babies went and all he wanted was for her to say well done you did a really good job and all she could do was sulk because he spent more time with the baby than with her!

I have to say i am enjoying watching.

mrskitty 12-01-2007 19:58

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I didn't watch this but i have seen similar in the past,i could not hand jack over to teenagers now let alone when he was younger.Even when im with people that are playing games with jack i find i have to stop myself from commenting on things they do.My great aunties especially-the first thing one of them says to him every time we visit is 'NO' (and then keeps saying it the whole time) when he does something his not meant to-never praise when his good or does somthing nice, or even 'hello'!I have to walk out because it gets on my nerves,so as for a stranger looking after him-no way.

cherokee 12-01-2007 21:32

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well for anyone whos not yet seen it is on now bbc3 first night with toddlers

mrskitty 12-01-2007 21:35

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They get a manual!!!!
where was mine for when i had Jack i ask lol

accymel 12-01-2007 21:39

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Originally Posted by misskitty (Post 366371)
They get a manual!!!!
where was mine for when i had Jack i ask lol


Think we all missed the manual, funny how everything else no matter how easy comes with one:rolleyes:

Toddlers heheheehe now thats a bit more challenging than babes :eek: lol

mrskitty 12-01-2007 21:42

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Im finding it easier to look after Jack now than i did when he was smaller-for most people its the other way round.
Ask me if i still feel this way when jack starts potty training!

Haha one of the toddlers is called Yanik!!!

shillelagh 12-01-2007 21:42

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If i had kids i wouldnt risk it leaving my baby with a couple of teenagers who dont have a clue on how to look after him/her. By the way i havent seen it dont get bbc3 its what i've read in the papers about it.

accymel 12-01-2007 21:44

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Originally Posted by misskitty (Post 366375)
Im finding it easier to look after Jack now than i did when he was smaller-for most people its the other way round.
Ask me if i still feel this way when jack starts potty training!

Haha one of the toddlers is called Yanik!!!

Hehehehee mind u my 2 werent too bad at potty training quite quick mind u the lad still has probs with aiming in loo:rolleyes:

Yanik - :rofl38: he's not chav's lovechild is he:rolleyes:

SPUGGIE J 12-01-2007 21:45

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I aint seen it but if they are typical teenagers even a manual would be no good because thats still telling them what has to be done. Teens would rather do it their way and their alone. If its that bad it should be shown at schools to cut teen pregnancy rates.

accymel 12-01-2007 21:47

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Originally Posted by SPUGGIE J (Post 366381)
I aint seen it but if they are typical teenagers even a manual would be no good because thats still telling them what has to be done. Teens would rather do it their way and their alone. If its that bad it should be shown at schools to cut teen pregnancy rates.

Aye typical teenagers definately lol, tho i think practical lessons like this is good to actually show that it isnt as easy as it sounds like most teenagers think these days:rolleyes:

cherokee 12-01-2007 22:31

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tonights prog were quite interesting...god theres some lazy arses on there ..

next one is 7 to 11 yr olds ...haha it just gets better

accymel 12-01-2007 22:38

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Originally Posted by cherokee (Post 366437)
tonights prog were quite interesting...god theres some lazy arses on there ..

next one is 7 to 11 yr olds ...haha it just gets better


I think they will of met their nemesis on that one LOL:D

WillowTheWhisp 12-01-2007 22:38

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A manual? :confused: Has anyone ever told babies they are supposed to behave according to a manual? :rolleyes:

accymel 12-01-2007 22:51

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Originally Posted by WillowTheWhisp (Post 366447)
A manual? :confused: Has anyone ever told babies they are supposed to behave according to a manual? :rolleyes:

LOL wouldnt know i've not had a manual:D mind u they dont do according to so called experts writing books either:rolleyes:

WillowTheWhisp 12-01-2007 23:06

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No neither did mine. I had a friend who had read all the books and when she had children they were going to be perfect. She knew exactly what to do and hers weren't going to cry and keep her awake at night. She was going to get them into a routine and she would sail through weaning and potty training. She knew exactly what to do when they had tantrums and exactly how to get them to behave.

Then she had a baby and came down to earth with a bump! Now she's got 2, one a baby and one a toddler and she's looking rather frazzled.

I haven't said "told you so" but I have thought it :D

mrskitty 13-01-2007 08:26

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LOL its just a manual that the parents have written a little bit about there child for example what they do/dont can/cant eat,bed times etc.

I must say i spent my maternity leave researching different parenting styles,and information about babies- which came in handy but i dont do everything i read,my friend took the p*ss saying jack is a 'text book baby'but shes the one with screaming fussy kids-not me :D

panther 13-01-2007 15:10

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being a mum come naturally for most, the only book i ever read was with my first born and yes I will admit it did come in handy when they are ill, and thats it, never read about how to do this or that it just came to me naturally and I never got any help and I was on my own at the time. and shes turned out great :D

SPUGGIE J 13-01-2007 15:19

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Originally Posted by accymel (Post 366384)
Aye typical teenagers definately lol, tho i think practical lessons like this is good to actually show that it isnt as easy as it sounds like most teenagers think these days:rolleyes:

Very true but some see them as a fashion item or easy money of the state.

Might have to have a look at this program.

AccyAlec 14-01-2007 00:12

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tlk about programs i cant wait for prison break sereis 2 to come on lol.

cherokee 14-01-2007 01:34

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well i dont know if they are going upto teenagers but if they do ...would be well worth watching ..
I ve had no manual and omg they do my head in lol!!! live and learn is what im going through each different from the other ......

cherokee 15-01-2007 21:30

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well its on now 7-11 yr olds ..should be fun

accymel 15-01-2007 21:31

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Originally Posted by cherokee (Post 368402)
well its on now 7-11 yr olds ..should be fun

Hehehehe watching it - hey welcome to my world i got 2 of them just lol

Tinkerbelle 15-01-2007 21:36

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I've got it on too. :)

cherokee 15-01-2007 21:38

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OMG 3 kids and a dog hahahahahaha

accymel 15-01-2007 21:43

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Heheehehe thats going to be fun:D

I think they will find it exhausting LOL

cherokee 15-01-2007 21:47

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well hes not a happy bunny is he pmsl!!!

Tinkerbelle 15-01-2007 21:47

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I can't help but sit here chuckling at them :)

accymel 15-01-2007 21:50

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If they thought the baies & tots were bad on the realtionship i definately think this will test em - kids looking after kids & toys lol

cherokee 15-01-2007 21:58

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roflmfao!!!!!A SLEEP OVER TO TOP IT OFF HAHAHA

cherokee 19-01-2007 01:24

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Well I just watched tonights episode of the baby borrowers and for those who missed it it was the OAPS 3 days ..and it made me think !!!!
Im 42 and kind of in between , ive done elderly care myself but it were so interesting tonight ...there were those who coped with the ie ..ones who could still party and the one who couldnt cope with lets say rubbing cream on scoriosis ridden legs and in general just couldnt handle old people and had ignorance of the elderly once being young..
It really scared me to the extent that I rem being a teenager and I personally would have done anything for the elderly , even though I used to think.."what do they know"..but the way the youth of today is going made me fear for the elderly and ie me getting old ..omg if they are that ignorant now what are they going to be like in 20 yrs time ?? ...im not condeming all youths but watching that tonight was really scary


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