How do you judge people?
 

It has often crossed my mind in the short time that I have been a member of Accyweb, How do other members who have not met me in person, and as far as I am aware there is only one out of all the thousands of members that I know has met me. This is a double edged sword how do I see you. Do I judge you by your body language, hard to do when you cannot see the other party, the way you craft your posts, I have found that the avitar of a member tells me or gives me an impression of the face behind the person. Am I right or wrong?:confused:

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yes you are right ianto, well from my experience with meeting accywebbers there avatar says it all, i try not to pre judge people, i usually go in with an open mind so i can make my own opinion of them......my avatar describes me to a tee :)

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I hope I dont look like my avatar! I dont judge people on here because you think you know what they might be like but then when you meet them they're totally different.

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Does this mean im a brew or a mug? :D


Please say im a brew .......... :D :D

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lol that looks like your a drunk brew jen ;)

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hey im sober - ive had one bottle of budweiser since new years and that was on wednesday night! :D So not even that for an excuse unless im getting drunk on coffee and orange & soda when i go out! :D

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It was your avitar that prompted me to raise the subject grego, I do not think for one moment that what I see portrays the person you are, but food for thought. No offence intended grego.;)

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lol jen i meant with what it says on the mug

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You dont know what it says on the other side!!!:D

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lol go on........

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LOL! Hmm, my avatar sums up my mentality ;)

There's no judgement needed in my case, I've always said if you don't like me on accyweb you'll hate me in reall life :D

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does that work the opposite way round too yee?? ;)

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LOL! Yes I'm a little sweetheart really :unsure8: .......... I AM!!!! :angel:

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And you'l never hear those :bleedht:s again. :;)

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ive just found your halo in mi bag ;)

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LOL! Keep it safe and give it a polish .... please :D

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whats up doc?

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well you do like white one's granny :D

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Does a member that has an avitar that changes into maybe two or three different characters have a multipe personality problem?

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Congrats on your 2500th Granny.

As for how I see people, I do alot better in face to face settings. I like to read body language to get a good idea as to how someone is thinking.

I also feel a bit more comfortable with people seeing how I say something. I believe I'm pretty easy to read as far as seriousness and humor! This is all a big reason for me wanting to take a trip over in May!

Brian

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It may be fairly shallow but I judge people by the clothes they wear, as they give off enough character details to make a fairly sound judgement possible.

For instance you are on a naturist beach. No clothes, everyone tanned, no clues.

Fat or thin, we all look fairly much the same in the nuddy. However, those same people on the boat back from the beach at the end of the day, are a totally different story. He is no longer a millionaire Swiss industrialist. No, in sandals worn with socks, and a Van Halen t-shirt, he's now a pork butcher from a suburb of Basel. The beautiful French babe isn't a haughty Parisian who works for Marie Clare after all. Once she's put her velour, leisure suit back on, she looks like the vet that she is. As for that sad, weedy, geek, now he's in his Jermyn Street shirt, horned rim glasses, and well tailored Bermuda shorts, he's gorgeous!

Shallow I know, but without speaking to people, it's a start.

As for you Ianto. What impression do I have of you, purely from knowing you from your posts here?

Kindly.

Sense of humour.

Bit paranoid.

Feisty.

Nice.:)

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this is it!:D My dad bought me the mug when i was 11 and ive managed to look after it all these years and not break it.

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good god, i hope you dont smash it now you've said that

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:eek: :eek: :eek: I'M SAYING NOWT JEN!!! .......... :rofl38:

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Why wots wrong with it? Whats wrong with save trees eat a beaver, if at first you dont succeed CHEAT, and Mickey Mouse is a rat - he is isnt he? :D

No i wont break it flashy i darent!!!!

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dont really judge until i meet people, things can be very misleading in a forum, have met many members now at meets and they definatly do not look like i imagined at first, also the ones i have come across i think are ok people without doubt. not what i imagined prior.as for what people think of me, my stock answer= Never Mistake Me. for Somebody That Gives a SH**.;)

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Well I can assure you I love trees but I ain't eating no beaver to save them!!!!!!!! :eek:

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Youv'e just about hit the nail on the head garinda, body language comes in many forms, tone of voice as in telephone agressive wording as in posts, but for me the avitars are the best indication as they are like personal number plates on cars, an extension of ones personality, or are they,
I think they may reflect a persons mood or sense of humour at the time they select them, and as I said no offence is intended, only a good humorous discussion on an otherwise boring evening.

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so what does my avatar tell folk?:D

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Your a wolf in fellas clothing!!!

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was gonna say you is foxy.................but then again thats a wolf :D

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We me i take folk as i find um, what you see with me is what you get,ask
tea leaf ime not good we fools or gob shiiites ive little time for this type of person :Banane35:

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Well I guess I must be a schzophrenic then, as I change mine as often as my socks.:D

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Yuk .. once a month .... :eek:

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And what type of person are you refering to moonshiner? The point of the thread is we do not see 'what we get' youv'e posted a photograph of a person in your profile, is it of yourself or how you would like to look?

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Are you calling Tealeaf a gob sh*te?:eek:

Living as you do in Church, I presume you must have met him?

Have some karma.:):D

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thats me pal

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it says you like little girls that wear red cloaks:D :D :D

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LOL! Tealeaf is a pussy cat ...... a big bald pussy :D

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tea leaf ,is a very very good mate we go back along time

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I'm a nosey beggar, and always look at people's profiles for clues as to who they are. It's great when people have a photograph, and give a few details about their life, like you have. Well done, from a nosey git, whose taken most of his details off.:D

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Been in your company many times, ask Paddy Feathers, you see now the point of the thread I know who you are, but to you im just another virtual member.;)

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Im one of the people that keeps an eye on is mam when he,s away

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right ya ****** talk ta me if ya no me youall know im not tellin lies :Banane40: :Banane40: ps i find ya

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...bet that wasn't the first picture that popped up when you Googled for that!;)

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Your as sound as a bell pal, and certainly not a liar, next time you come in the Canine I'll buy you a drink, Paddy can buy his own.;)

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http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:...96e83bf0_o.jpg

Thats what i got!

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........ :rofl38:

Sadly it was :o I have to have search filter on for the kids ....... Oh and mthead :w00t:

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... and what do you think of me, but be carefull? hehe

:)

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It's interesting. When you're on a forum, you tend to have much more extreme views, and things seem more black and white, hence if you disagree with someone its usually to a large degree.

When I first started I had certain impressions of people, especially Gayle because she was fighting to become a councilor for the Labour party, where as I was quite Conservative thinking at the time. I basicly expected her to be an evil ogre, not the nice person I met in Oakhill Park. Haha.

Another person I'd make judgments on is Jambutty, we've had such major disagreements at times, so much so that I've even turned to childish name calling at one point. Now im pretty sure if I met him in the flesh, we'd agree on so so much, and we'd have a understanding between us. Of course, I would like to meet Jambutty at some stage, because of the interesting debates we have had here, and really because even though I don't believe hes right all the time, I still have a lot of respect for him because his arguments are usually founded upon solid ground, even if I think the judgment is wrong sometimes.

It really is quite funny how different people can be on a forum as opposed to in person. Then again, im probably personally the same in person as on here, but im sure the people I met at the meet could give an opinion on that. :)

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Without wanting to appear patronising Len, you went out of your way to sort a thread out for me that had unfairly robbed me of posts by being moved, and restored them for me, as for your avitar I dare not comment on it as I may unwittingly appear offensive.;)

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well I would look daft looking like my avatar, I bet you lot cant guess what im really like?:D

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Thanks Cyfr, I think :D

I love the debate threads, I don't post on all of them if I don't have an opinion or enough information to do so, but I do find them interesting.

I'm a bit like that in real life, I love a good debate, can get quite heated and cross with people but at the end of the evening would never leave angry.

The only time I don't like it is when it gets into personal attacks and I've been on the end of a few of them - they upset me. You can attack my views, disagree with me endlessly but call me names and I do take them personally.

When I first came on I had a big row with Tealeaf and Less and it left me in tears, really upset me because I took it personally, mostly because it was an attacking thread that had my name in the title - pretty much gonna take that personal I think. Since then though, I've met Less and we get along fine now. We actually have similar senses of humour, not that most people would think so from my posts on here, so we're ok now.

What I do find interesting though is working out relationships with other members. For instance, there are a few members on here that know each other and it's interesting when new members plough in to work out how or who they know.

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You are spot on there Gayle, and before you hit the button I owe you an apology on B and P I will post it, it is as you say a clash of like personalities sometimes. But naming members in headline titles of a thread is insulting and definitly in my book not on, regards Ian.;)

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No offence taken, my avatar reflects my sense of humour and he's my favourite character in Little Britain.:)

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Well said cyfr! I've to be in a few tiffs and it can get quite upsetting.

Must admit I enjoy watching some of the word battles that go on. There are a few sharp-tongued individuals that can make a good riff that much more enjoyable.

Also appreciate the peace makers that try to bring the family-feuds back to the kissing and making up stage!

Brian

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Am I being thick, don't all shout at once, what's B and P? :o :D

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Don't put it in your car Gayle, the singing ringing tree thread on Burnley and Pendle where I said you and your office should be placed on the highest point of the Coppice as Accringtons Panoptecan, without gas and electricity, I was out of order for mentioning your name.
SORRY. :o

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Ah, I get it!

Yes, that did p me off a bit. And now you've repeated it on here - well done! :D

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If you had not asked I would not have repeated it, please can I be forgiven, my sweet and sour chicken awaits.:D

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A pm would have sufficed or a hint. :D Oh, go on, you go and eat your sweet and sour chicken, I can't deprive a man of his food just for a quick argument.:p

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Thank you very much Gale as we say in Yorkshire "you'r a good skin" I seldom PM ladies as it could prove an embarassment if the husband is PC wise, my wife is paranoid worse than I am even about text messages, yes it was unthinking of me again.:o

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A bloke cant multitask like us women Gayle - i managed to eat my tea and posted on here at the same time.

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A man could do all that whilst .....er......pleasuring himself.:D

By which I mean of course scratching himself.;)

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Why can you do that rindy? :D

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Hang on I'll look.....yes, I'm a man.:D

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Are you sure you'r not a 'chameleman' garinda.:D