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steeljack 16-05-2007 05:15

would anyone notice if you went missing
 
came across this news bit about a new home buyer finding the body of the previous owner in his new flat
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/6659911.stm
wouldn't think it could happen in a place like Accy/Hyndburn the neighbours being to nosey but it makes you think ............;) ;) ;)

Neil 16-05-2007 06:05

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Well I haven't missed Flashy since she was banned, it's like she is still with us in spirit :rolleyes:

steeljack 16-05-2007 06:12

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Originally Posted by pink (Post 425091)
like i said you know she's still here....live for the moment thats what i say :D

"Pink" for some reason you remind me of an old movie featuring Elsa Lancaster ............;) ;) ;)

panther 16-05-2007 08:19

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i would be noticed if i went missing, there would be no one to cook the kids and fellas tea or iron or clean up so yeh i think they would notice im gone:rolleyes:

Traceyb37 16-05-2007 09:33

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Originally Posted by panther (Post 425114)
i would be noticed if i went missing, there would be no one to cook the kids and fellas tea or iron or clean up so yeh i think they would notice im gone:rolleyes:


hubby would fly the flag if i went missing lol! <he loves me really> :Banane06:

jackyalex 16-05-2007 09:39

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Originally Posted by panther (Post 425114)
i would be noticed if i went missing, there would be no one to cook the kids and fellas tea or iron or clean up so yeh i think they would notice im gone:rolleyes:

yeah same here,its funny how you would be missed for them reasons, but when you get your hair done or buy new clothes you dont get noticed

SPUGGIE J 16-05-2007 10:07

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No only those who wanted money would be looking. :p

Gayle 16-05-2007 11:16

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It depends when I went missing - for instance, my job is so flexible that if I didn't show up in the morning they wouldn't particularly worry, just assume I wasn't coming in that day. However, if I went missing on the way home from work I think alarm bells would be ringing within an hour or so.

WillowTheWhisp 16-05-2007 11:31

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I think my kids would notice if I wasn't here.

Tealeaf 16-05-2007 11:33

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I'd miss Willow and Gayle...they're so easy to wind up.

Neil 16-05-2007 11:37

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Originally Posted by Tealeaf (Post 425293)
I'd miss Willow and Gayle...they're so easy to wind up.

LOL we would miss you as well mate :D:D:D

garinda 16-05-2007 12:33

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It's very sad this fifty five year old woman's children didn't wonder where she was, whilst dead in her flat for six years.


Looks like they don't have Council Tax in Spain.

In the UK she would have been discovered much earlier, when the council sent in the bailiffs, because she was a couple of months late with her payments.;)

WillowTheWhisp 16-05-2007 12:43

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Originally Posted by Tealeaf (Post 425293)
I'd miss Willow and Gayle...they're so easy to wind up.

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harwood red 16-05-2007 12:43

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Unfortunately a lady down our road was found last week, and she laid undiscovered for two weeks.. her best friend had gone away for a 2 week hol but had not asked anyone to check on her... sad thing is when she was found it looked like her dog had only just died!!!

WillowTheWhisp 16-05-2007 12:45

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Amazing that although she had "defaulted" on the payments, no-one from the bank/mortgage company had called at the house - not even a valuer before it was put up for sale?

panther 16-05-2007 12:47

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im a nosy ****** me always at me door, so if i go missing people will be wandering wheres that nosy sod?

Neil 16-05-2007 12:58

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Originally Posted by garinda (Post 425335)
Looks like they don't have Council Tax in Spain.

In the UK she would have been discovered much earlier, when the council sent in the bailiffs, because she was a couple of months late with her payments.;)

It does not work like that in Spain, as far as I know they just tell you how much you owe and then take the money from your bank account. You have no choice, they just take it.

cashman 16-05-2007 13:31

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Originally Posted by Neil (Post 425383)
It does not work like that in Spain, as far as I know they just tell you how much you owe and then take the money from your bank account. You have no choice, they just take it.

not so neil,they only deduct from your bank account if you set it up that way, which i have for electricity,water, communidad, the basura, and the council tax equivilant i get annual bills posted, my (council tax) was posted march,but i have until november to pay it.(damn sight better than here)lol anyway back to thread, think its such a shame people croak n no ****** knows for ages, like to think i would be missed by a few people, the rest i couldnt give a rats about.;)

WillowTheWhisp 16-05-2007 14:41

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Originally Posted by Neil (Post 425383)
It does not work like that in Spain, as far as I know they just tell you how much you owe and then take the money from your bank account. You have no choice, they just take it.

Nah, it's just like our Direct Debit system but with Spanish terminology.

maxwell silver 16-05-2007 17:30

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I would'nt even notice if i went missing,but i don't talk to myself as much these days.In fact i have'nt seen me for quite some time.Have i gone missing from myself :D

grego 16-05-2007 19:36

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I like to think I'd be missed we are quite a close family and see each other regular so I think they'd notice quite quickly.

MargaretR 16-05-2007 20:00

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A few weeks ago, as a result of a misread obituary, my fellow bingoers at Accy Empire thought I was dead. It happened to coincide with a week when I was housebound with that dental abcess which stopped me going to the last but one meet.
When I walked in the bingo (not knowing about the false rumour) several people looked up and turned white. Then the manager came to me and explained that they were about to have a collection for a wreath.
I was made a fuss of by people I only know by first name only, and approached by people who I dont even know the names of, saying they were glad that I was alive.
I was very moved by the feelings expressed by people who I had only considered to be aquaintances.
That is the sort of community spirit that gladdens the heart,

shillelagh 16-05-2007 21:23

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I live on my own and if my sisters and bro's and neighbours didnt see me for a week they'd get worried. Then come looking for me.

Mind you i was late for work and i missed the phone call on my mobile - they rang my bro i was late by 10 mins! So i am missed god knows why though. :D
Must be my sunny personality!!!

cashman 08-02-2009 22:53

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funny thing just struck me,i think i do miss people on here, even if i aint met em,when they aint been on fer a while, more so than miss neighbours, reason being i know em better,if that makes sense. i know some folk were worried about me last month n i was only on holiday,that was very good of em i think. difference these days, neighbours are predominantly asian, n whilst we get along fine wi em, they can clear off home fer 6 wks,/ 3 months etc n in the main,never mention the fact. they don't seem to mention owt like that, don't know why:confused: we always mention to neighbours when we go away, its like extra insurance, if they know, they will keep n eye on the house.

garinda 08-02-2009 23:00

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Originally Posted by cashman (Post 677512)
funny thing just struck me,i think i do miss people on here, even if i aint met em,when they aint been on fer a while, more so than miss neighbours, reason being i know em better,if that makes sense. i know some folk were worried about me last month n i was only on holiday,that was very good of em i think. difference these days, neighbours are predominantly asian, n whilst we get along fine wi em, they can clear off home fer 6 wks,/ 3 months etc n in the main,never mention the fact. they don't seem to mention owt like that, don't know why:confused: we always mention to neighbours when we go away, its like extra insurance, if they know, they will keep n eye on the house.

It was a bit like that living in cities like London and Glasgow.

People are more transient, and you don't get the neighbourliness you often get in small towns, especially in the north.

I'm lucky I have great neighbours now. There when you need them, and visa versa.

Missed Margaret's post re: her wreath the first time round. Really had me howling. Read like a script from Last of the Summer Wine, only funnier because it's set in Lancashire instead.

:D

grannyclaret 09-02-2009 00:47

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Sounds like margarets on borrowed time

accyman 09-02-2009 04:17

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after a few days my friends sugar and coffee supplies would overflow due to not been used and alerts would be risen :D

flashy 09-02-2009 05:52

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Reece would notice i suppose, oh and maybe my brother would notice when he runs out of cash and has no one to borrow off

jaysay 09-02-2009 09:25

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Were I live, its Warden controlled, some time ago quite a few years, I wasn't to well one morning and decided to stay in bed, I'm a creature of habit in as much that I usually get up at the same time each morning and open the curtains by round 9-30am, on this occasion because I hadn't done my usual ritual,by 10-30am the Warde was knocking on the door to see if everything was okay, as a neighbour had showed concern. Like cashy said you tend to miss people on here if they haven't been on for a while, as was shown earlier this year when I was in hospital twice. Another thing that is a great thing about Accy Web is that when I came out of hospital the number of PMs I had asking if I needed any help or shopping doing, which is very reassuring to say the least

garinda 09-02-2009 09:41

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When I was rushed into hospital in the summer a friend of Neil and Romp's, who works at the hospital, recognised me after briefly seeing me at the concert in Rhyddings Park.

Next thing I know Neil's at my bedside with a bunch of grapes, telling me all the Accy Web gossip, then Lettie's down from maternity, checking the nurses are looking after me properly.

Happily people in this part of the world do still care, and word usually spreads quickly if someone isn't A1.

I was just pleased I was on the heart ward, and not the clap clinic.

:D


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