Final Words/Final Wishes?
 

No not mine you silly people!:p (then again one never knows eh?)

I'm not trying to be morbid at all. Reality says that all of us will face the loss of a loved one and ourselves at sometime in the future. Just think how often we stand by a mates grave or in their memorial service wishing they knew what we thought of them, how much we cared, etc.

Many of us are living with illnesses, diseases, weakenesses, that others aren't aware of. Care to share? Any last words that you didn't get to say to a loved oned? Here's the main "Chat" question:

What would you like Accywebbers to know as your final words in relation to your mates on here? (Does this make any sense?)

For example: Don't Cry For Me Argentina!:confused:

Brian

(and I so wished my 1,000 post was gonna be a good one):rolleyes:

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I'd hate to be on my death bed, and have regrets about not having said things.

I have no shame in letting the people I love know that I...er, love them.

My final words will be.....


PARTY!:D

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Well my new found little bruv, my final words to you is that I have a great deal of respect for you and would miss you dearly! (i aint about to say the love word out here in the open, at least not to a bloke!);)

Brian

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I Told You I Was Ill.:D

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...Spike Milligan. ;)

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cheers Sparks couldn,t remember who said it, loved it then @ still do.:)

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My final wish would be:
For God's sake don't scatter my ashes on Turf Moor. ;)
I will come back to haunt you.

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Holy S**t ... I didn't think it was loaded!

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My last words to you lot (hopefully).

Thanks for coming to my party. It was hard work blowing out 110 candles.

:)

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Mine is - Did i enjoy my life ????? - well Yes I think I did, - Did I hurt anybody ??? I hope not, - but my motto always was/is -- "you've a time to live and a place to die" and mostly that ain't of your choosin' - so what the hell just go out there and live it while you can !!!!


Cheers (hic) guys

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If I were the one staying alive my last words to the one doing the dying would be, “Goodbye and thanks for the memories.”

If it were me doing the dying my last words would be, “Goodbye! Shed a tear at my passing if you must but don’t remember me because I have died, remember me because I have lived.”

However in this day and age with all the gadgets around the thing to do would be to create a video diary or at least a sound diary that won’t be shown/listened to until after I’ve gone.

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I hope I have better luck next time

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Marx, Karl (1818-1883) "Go on, get out. Last words are for fools who haven't said enough."

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after much thought i think my last words will probably be- Give Us A Fag.;)

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'She always had a smile on her face and couldnt say no when i asked'

Think that suits me - my boss always says i have a smile on my face, the pool team - when i got beat had a smile on my face, i have a smile on my face reading accyweb especially the posts in anything goes.

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Would love to say,cashy hun .. you remember your post in the Final Words/Final wishes thread ... well:-
@ = at
& = and

Too polite to point it out now ... :D

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Spuggie .. watch out .. this sounds a bit manic to me ! Remember the Joker in Batman ... :D

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Am I Boverd ?:D

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id like to tell my loved ones
that i will contact them as soon
as i was settled
on the other side

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i hope i dont know when im gonna die, im hoping its gonna be while im sleeping!
the thought of knowing terrifies me:(

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dont really bother me, if i know it will give me the chance to wind the medical staff up:D =" Dummy you cant cure me". - pardon my sick sense of humour,but thats me

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I think most of its is knowing ill be leaving my kids, i dont like the idea of that at all!, knowing that you are dying must be one of the worst feelings ever, i hope i never have to go through that, i want it to be quick!!

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i think we all know we are dying
its when thats the underlying problem
as you said earlier the fear of the unknown

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'Thankyou' (for providing me with so much entertainment and hours of fun!).
As for death itself i was worried about it till i was in labour with Jack and i actually thought i was dying....really i was just drugged up to the eyeballs and had passed out because i hadnt slept for 72 hours,and had been in labour for 12 of them.But people were checking my pulse and slapping me (LOL!)and i could hear them talking but i couldnt 'wake up'....very weird but i was so high i loved it :rolleyes: but i did actually think i was dying and kept telling myself i had to snap out of it otherwise my baby would die too..so thats what i think it will be like in my last moments...hopefully.
All i have to do is make sure theres lots of drugs handy for when the time comes :D:D:D

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"Weep not for my passing from this life, for death may be the greatest adventure of them all".

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Actually been there & done it once survived but last dying thoughts were 'i dont want to die please dont want to die & that if i died i wouldnt of reached 30'! Being 23 at the time 30 must of been old so deeply upset me at the time that there was a lot of life i would miss out on if i had of gone & luckily i made it to that milestone - 30 is actually quite young!! LOL!

Life gone by flashbacks do actually happen during the process - thats freaky but not as bad as a 'what would become of me & the effects my passing would have on my young ones' certainly gave me the kick arse fight back to the living!!

I want to go if i had to peacefully & when im really old, or when im not needed anymore here on earth, certainly not again in the circumstances that happened last time or in real suffering.

But atm i want to stay living even when times are bad, i take everyday as it comes & memory bank everything good, i dont take my life for granted certainly since then nor do i want others to take me for granted either because i know too well im on borrowed time. Take life as it comes & try to make the most of it as its here today & could be gone tommorow.

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Great response Mel! So very glad to see you and now Miss Kitty, back on Accyweb.

I have no fear of death and know that even my next breath is a gift! If you get a post from Cindy saying "LYY has left the building," be assured that I am in a far far better place. Knowing that makes death merely a kicking off point for my new life in Heaven.

I do hope my death is not wasted i.e., illness, car wreck, suicide, etc, but rather sacrificing myself to save others. That's how I'd "like to go." Weird and seemingly opposing thoughts eh?

Hugs and Kisses as you guys have a nice day!:rolleyes::p

Brian

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I remember starting this post mainly to get Ian to give us his thoughts. He had told me during my May visit that he was very bad off and he knew the end was near. He swore me to secrecy.

I'm glad we can now look on his last thoughts (at least at that time). Also, may obtain others thoughts on this matter! I will share more in a bit.

Brian

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What about telling your mum you was sorry when you spilt stuff on the curtain :D:D:D haha