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panther 07-10-2007 16:29

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A couple who took a DNA test to silence pub gossips who questioned the parentage of their daughter got a nasty shock.The Czech pair, had grown sick of constant sniping from friends.

Their 10-month-old baby girl had blonde hair while they both had dark hair. So, to end the rumours, they took a DNA test. But the results showed that neither of them had the same genetic profile as the baby and could therefore not be the real parents.:eek: it is now believed their child had been mixed-up with another in hospital.

that must be horrible finding out your son/daughter isnt your real kid!!

but if i had brought them up , i dont think i could give that child away.....could you?:confused:

flashy 07-10-2007 16:31

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oh my...that must be awful for them

WillowTheWhisp 07-10-2007 16:36

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Even worse is the thought that the own child has been brought up by someone else.

harwood red 07-10-2007 16:37

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What an absolute nightmare...not sure how I would deal with it at all after bonding with a child for 10 months!!!!!!! :(

Neil 07-10-2007 16:37

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Originally Posted by flashytart (Post 478871)
oh my...that must be awful for them

That depends if she was a good baby. They might be glad of the chance to swap for there real one :D

Bye the flashy I will give you that smack in the gob next time I see you :D:D:D

garinda 07-10-2007 17:21

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Here's a case that took twenty nine years before a man realised he'd been given to the wrong parents at the hospital.

Man given to wrong parents at birth files suit

panther 07-10-2007 17:24

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it must be really nasty shock!!
i wouldnt know what i'd do if i found out i was 'swapped':(

garinda 07-10-2007 17:27

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I think there was another famous case in Canada in the '40's, that they made a film about.


Very often I think there must have been some Nordic Princess giving birth at Bramley Meade Maternity Home, in January 1965.:D

MargaretR 07-10-2007 18:21

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Originally Posted by garinda (Post 478908)
I think there was another famous case in Canada in the '40's, that they made a film about.


Very often I think there must have been some Nordic Princess giving birth at Bramley Meade Maternity Home, in January 1965.:D

I was there in June 1965 - :eek:

Relief - you have added January :D

garinda 07-10-2007 19:00

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Originally Posted by [email protected] (Post 478958)
I was there in June 1965 - :eek:

Relief - you have added January :D

Come off it, you'd have loved to shove me around in a pram...infact you probably still would.:D

Neil 07-10-2007 19:04

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Originally Posted by garinda (Post 478980)
Come off it, you'd have loved to shove me around in a pram...infact you probably still would.:D

I am sure you will let her put a big nappy on you. It would be nice of you not to soil it this time, like you did with your last pretend mummy. :eek:

grego 07-10-2007 20:13

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How awful, but I suppose you'd have no choice but to find your biological child, would be very hard though.

West Ender 07-10-2007 21:42

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It would be devastating to find out the child you had reared wasn't your own but could you stop loving it? You might be very concerned that your "real" child was well loved and cared for but, if it was, could you take it away from the only parents it had ever known? For me, the answer to both questions would be no. A little child only knows that it is loved and safe with its parents, whether they are the natural parents or not, and to hand it over to strangers, saying "You are not my child", would be cruel and selfish in the extreme.

Lilly 07-10-2007 21:43

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How awful. Can't imagine what it would be like to have to give that child up and bond with another after all those months.:(

WillowTheWhisp 08-10-2007 10:44

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I'd hate to be in that dilemma because I would love the child I had cared for but also feel drawn to the child who was genetically mine. I suppose I'd somehow want to be involved with both, but it would depend a lot on the feelings of the other parents too.

yerself 08-10-2007 11:11

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Originally Posted by garinda
Very often I think there must have been some Nordic Princess giving birth at Bramley Meade Maternity Home, in January 1965.

I think you're wrong there. It was about 9 years earlier.:D:D

WillowTheWhisp 08-10-2007 11:15

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Whenever my parents were mad at me about something I remember wishing I was really the child of someone intriguing who would come and whisk me away to my true heritage! I'd probably have hated it if they did though.

grego 08-10-2007 11:30

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Originally Posted by WillowTheWhisp (Post 479182)
Whenever my parents were mad at me about something I remember wishing I was really the child of someone intriguing who would come and whisk me away to my true heritage! I'd probably have hated it if they did though.

Iwere like that too Willow, I also used to ask to be sent to the local childrens home, how horrible is that:(

WillowTheWhisp 08-10-2007 11:32

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Oh I'm glad I'm not the only one.

West Ender 08-10-2007 15:11

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A boy who lived near me, when I was a child, had been adopted just after the war. When I heard about it I wanted to be an adopted child too, it seemed very "exotic". I was quite disappointed when my mother assured me that I was just a plain old common-or-garden natural child. :p

BERNADETTE 10-10-2007 17:53

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Was reading about this in todays paper and the couples are going to get their own children back. Apparently they are getting to know the children and hope to be back together before Christmas.

WillowTheWhisp 10-10-2007 17:58

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I read an article about them too. One mother said she wished she could keep both children. They do realise it's going to take a lot of adjustment. I feel so sorry for them. :(

BERNADETTE 10-10-2007 18:05

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Yes so do I but I think I would have asked a few more questions at the hospital. There were some discrepencies with the babies weights which should have been picked up on IMO.

MargaretR 10-10-2007 18:19

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It is too easy for the nurses to get it wrong. When I was in Bramley Meade in 1965 the babies were only with you at feedtimes, and they once delivered me the wrong baby for feeding. I must admit that the baby DID resemble mine and my suspicions were aroused only because he seemed to have gained a lot of weight since the last feed. A check of the wristband averted disaster - thank goodness it had not become detatched.

BERNADETTE 10-10-2007 18:24

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That was one of the things they brought up, how the babies weight had changed so dramatically. The staff told them it had been recorded wrong at birth.

Eric 10-10-2007 18:48

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Maybe they should not cut the cord until mother and child are on the way out of the hospital.

panther 11-10-2007 09:12

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looks like they gonna swap back, i can imagine its gonna be sad:(

BBC NEWS | World | Europe | Czech parents to exchange babies

grannyclaret 11-10-2007 13:21

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http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/...QL._AA115_.jpgThere was this film on tele a few years ago ,,a real tearjerker.starring Milissa Gilbert ,,(Laura Ingals in Little house on the prairie),,The two mothers ended up with both of them bringing up both children,,because they had each bonded with the wrong child, and wanted and loved the natural child too,,,

WillowTheWhisp 11-10-2007 15:26

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The parents would have to get on really well with each other though and agree on how the children are brought up for that to work wouldn't they? They might have totally different ideas on child rearing.

Ianto.W. 14-10-2007 00:12

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I'll bet there are one or two children who wouldn't mind swapping their parents :D

SPUGGIE J 14-10-2007 00:14

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Originally Posted by Ianto.W. (Post 481318)
I'll bet there are one or two children who wouldn't mind swapping their parents :D

So thats why my teens like ebay they must think they can buy and sell em. :eek:

grego 14-10-2007 08:58

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It must be a very difficult time for them all, at least its going to be gradual and the babies are going to get used to the other set of parents before the swap, I suppose its better now than in a few years time. Hard to imagine what they're going through, thank goodness they dont take your babies away these days.

West Ender 14-10-2007 20:00

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The last I read about this was that neither parents will give up the baby they have reared but will live as closely as possible with the other family. Blood is important but love and bonding are what really count.


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