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DNA..Horror
A couple who took a DNA test to silence pub gossips who questioned the parentage of their daughter got a nasty shock.The Czech pair, had grown sick of constant sniping from friends.
Their 10-month-old baby girl had blonde hair while they both had dark hair. So, to end the rumours, they took a DNA test. But the results showed that neither of them had the same genetic profile as the baby and could therefore not be the real parents.:eek: it is now believed their child had been mixed-up with another in hospital. that must be horrible finding out your son/daughter isnt your real kid!! but if i had brought them up , i dont think i could give that child away.....could you?:confused: |
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oh my...that must be awful for them
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Even worse is the thought that the own child has been brought up by someone else.
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What an absolute nightmare...not sure how I would deal with it at all after bonding with a child for 10 months!!!!!!! :(
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Bye the flashy I will give you that smack in the gob next time I see you :D:D:D |
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Here's a case that took twenty nine years before a man realised he'd been given to the wrong parents at the hospital.
Man given to wrong parents at birth files suit |
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it must be really nasty shock!!
i wouldnt know what i'd do if i found out i was 'swapped':( |
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I think there was another famous case in Canada in the '40's, that they made a film about.
Very often I think there must have been some Nordic Princess giving birth at Bramley Meade Maternity Home, in January 1965.:D |
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Relief - you have added January :D |
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How awful, but I suppose you'd have no choice but to find your biological child, would be very hard though.
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It would be devastating to find out the child you had reared wasn't your own but could you stop loving it? You might be very concerned that your "real" child was well loved and cared for but, if it was, could you take it away from the only parents it had ever known? For me, the answer to both questions would be no. A little child only knows that it is loved and safe with its parents, whether they are the natural parents or not, and to hand it over to strangers, saying "You are not my child", would be cruel and selfish in the extreme.
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How awful. Can't imagine what it would be like to have to give that child up and bond with another after all those months.:(
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I'd hate to be in that dilemma because I would love the child I had cared for but also feel drawn to the child who was genetically mine. I suppose I'd somehow want to be involved with both, but it would depend a lot on the feelings of the other parents too.
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Whenever my parents were mad at me about something I remember wishing I was really the child of someone intriguing who would come and whisk me away to my true heritage! I'd probably have hated it if they did though.
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Oh I'm glad I'm not the only one.
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A boy who lived near me, when I was a child, had been adopted just after the war. When I heard about it I wanted to be an adopted child too, it seemed very "exotic". I was quite disappointed when my mother assured me that I was just a plain old common-or-garden natural child. :p
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Was reading about this in todays paper and the couples are going to get their own children back. Apparently they are getting to know the children and hope to be back together before Christmas.
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I read an article about them too. One mother said she wished she could keep both children. They do realise it's going to take a lot of adjustment. I feel so sorry for them. :(
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Yes so do I but I think I would have asked a few more questions at the hospital. There were some discrepencies with the babies weights which should have been picked up on IMO.
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It is too easy for the nurses to get it wrong. When I was in Bramley Meade in 1965 the babies were only with you at feedtimes, and they once delivered me the wrong baby for feeding. I must admit that the baby DID resemble mine and my suspicions were aroused only because he seemed to have gained a lot of weight since the last feed. A check of the wristband averted disaster - thank goodness it had not become detatched.
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That was one of the things they brought up, how the babies weight had changed so dramatically. The staff told them it had been recorded wrong at birth.
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Maybe they should not cut the cord until mother and child are on the way out of the hospital.
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looks like they gonna swap back, i can imagine its gonna be sad:(
BBC NEWS | World | Europe | Czech parents to exchange babies |
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http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/...QL._AA115_.jpgThere was this film on tele a few years ago ,,a real tearjerker.starring Milissa Gilbert ,,(Laura Ingals in Little house on the prairie),,The two mothers ended up with both of them bringing up both children,,because they had each bonded with the wrong child, and wanted and loved the natural child too,,,
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The parents would have to get on really well with each other though and agree on how the children are brought up for that to work wouldn't they? They might have totally different ideas on child rearing.
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I'll bet there are one or two children who wouldn't mind swapping their parents :D
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It must be a very difficult time for them all, at least its going to be gradual and the babies are going to get used to the other set of parents before the swap, I suppose its better now than in a few years time. Hard to imagine what they're going through, thank goodness they dont take your babies away these days.
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The last I read about this was that neither parents will give up the baby they have reared but will live as closely as possible with the other family. Blood is important but love and bonding are what really count.
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