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polly 07-06-2008 13:16

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Originally Posted by BERNADETTE (Post 588647)
Think you have got me misread on this, what I was trying to say was there are people in schools trained to pick up on the talk or lack of about the deaths of close relatives. In no way do I doubt that this little boy is beside himself with grief but can imagine he didn't want to make his daddy feel even more upset. That is where the counsellors come into their own, just being able to offload a tiny proportion of how he felt might just have helped him. RIP Joshua

According to todays The Times the child went to an independent school and these do not always have access to ancillary facilities that state schools have.

jaysay 07-06-2008 13:39

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Originally Posted by polly (Post 588899)
According to todays The Times the child went to an independent school and these do not always have access to ancillary facilities that state schools have.

From what I saw last night on Telly, it seems that the school staff had tried to help him after his mother died, but obviously the poor lad kept it all bottled up, what a devastating blow for his family R. I. P.

polly 07-06-2008 13:43

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Originally Posted by jaysay (Post 588906)
From what I saw last night on Telly, it seems that the school staff had tried to help him after his mother died, but obviously the poor lad kept it all bottled up, what a devastating blow for his family R. I. P.

I am absolutely sure that the school staff will have tried their very best to help him. However, that is not the same as having trained professionals working with him

garinda 07-06-2008 17:33

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Originally Posted by polly (Post 588899)
According to todays The Times the child went to an independent school and these do not always have access to ancillary facilities that state schools have.

Having been to both a state and an independent school myself, as well as currently having close relatives at both types of establishments, the pastoral care is every bit as good in the independent sector, if not better.

I also know someone at the senior school where this poor boy attended, and there is a very good range of ancillary care for all pupils who may need it, at King Edward's.

I fail to see what type of school he attended has any relevance on this tragedy.

Very, very sad.:(

polly 07-06-2008 17:37

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Originally Posted by garinda (Post 589044)
Having been to both a state and an independent school myself, as well as currently having close relatives at both types of establishments, the pastoral care is every bit as good in the independent sector, if not better.

I also know someone at the senior school where this poor boy attended, and there is a very good range of ancillary care for all pupils who may need it, at King Edward's.

I fail to see what type of school he attended has any relevance on this tragedy.

Very, very sad.:(

I didnt say that the type of school attended necessarily affects the ancillary services. Just that for every 1 private schools with good support services I can find 10 state schools with far superior services.

garinda 07-06-2008 17:41

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Hardly the thread to be debating the issue.

The poor child is dead, and your comments about what care he may, or may not, have recieved at school, resulting from his mother and grandfather's death, are insensitive to say the least.

polly 07-06-2008 17:51

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Without examination of history we learn nothing

My full sympathies go out to the remaining families, let us hope that the authorities offer them the support and help they need

grannyclaret 07-06-2008 20:25

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I thought i had problems,but this puts everything into perspective,,
,My heartfelt sympathy to his family...

ANNE 07-06-2008 21:26

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Poor Boy. R.I.P.
Our hearts go out to his family.

blazey 07-06-2008 22:13

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Can I just point out that I wasn't criticising Bernadette, just pointing out that nobody expects an 8yr old to hang themselves.

cashman 07-06-2008 22:36

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Originally Posted by blazey (Post 589201)
Can I just point out that I wasn't criticising Bernadette, just pointing out that nobody expects an 8yr old to hang themselves.

can't speak fer bernie obviously, but i never took it as criticism, in fact i agree ya cannot comprehend a child of that age doing that.

pussycat 07-06-2008 23:18

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R,I,P, joshua,


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