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Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 12:09

Fears/phobias
 
I came across this clip which i thought was pretty sad (Just goes to show you can't judge a book by it's cover)
My Extreme Animal Phobia: Tough guy afraid of a puppy - YouTube


Plus I didn't see a thread about phobias ;) so I thought i'd make one. Some people believe that phobias develop from the body’s natural desire to protect itself,Heights,Clowns, spiders,enclosed spaces to name a few......whats your fears/phobias?

-For me, I have a fear of needles (not just any old pointed object) Aichmophobia, :eek:

Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 12:18

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fear of folk starting threads in the wrong section :o

accyman 25-10-2012 13:55

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i reakon hussain bolt would have good competition if it had bit him :D
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im afraid i wouldnt have been so patient i woulda slapped the back of his head and told him to man up because there are real dangers in this world like slugs.
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dont laugh i was once chased at very low speed back into my house by a slug

Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 14:07

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Originally Posted by accyman (Post 1024576)
i reakon hussain bolt would have good competition if it had bit him :D
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im afraid i wouldnt have been so patient i woulda slapped the back of his head and told him to man up because there are real dangers in this world like slugs.
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dont laugh i was once chased at very low speed back into my house by a slug

i'm not laughing i seen the mail online headline too :D

'Alien' killer slug with razor-sharp teeth slithering round gardens in the UK | Mail Online

accyman 25-10-2012 15:29

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alien slug?

if they cant withstand salt i highly doubt they could cope with re-enty ;)

Sunflower49 25-10-2012 15:43

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Originally Posted by accyman (Post 1024576)
i reakon hussain bolt would have good competition if it had bit him :D
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im afraid i wouldnt have been so patient i woulda slapped the back of his head and told him to man up because there are real dangers in this world like slugs.
.
dont laugh i was once chased at very low speed back into my house by a slug

:D:eek:
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Originally Posted by Chris SUI JURIS (Post 1024579)

That's an amazing creature. I note 'Comments are no longer being accepted on this article' , wonder how arguments ensued over a slug! :)


Phobias, I used to be a bit irrational about wasps, I'm not that bothered about them now.
I also used to have another, non-tangible fear which I am 99.9% sure was caused by childhood experience, not sure I would call it a phobia, but it did affect me a lot for years and years. I'll not say I am totally cured, but I manage it properly now, self cured it along with a bit of help from my friends :)

Eric 25-10-2012 16:57

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I don't think I have any major phobias (except, perhaps, a touch of athazagoraphobia:D) ... at least, none have shown up in the past 66 years;) Anyway, I checked out "phobias"; and there seems to be one for just about everything. There is even "phobophobia": a fear of phobias:eek:

I suppose one could even come up with some new ones. Mangleodickaphobia: fear of getting your whatsit caught in the mangle. Suffered only by those males born before the advent of the spin cycle.;)

Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 17:29

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Originally Posted by Eric (Post 1024597)
I don't think I have any major phobias (except, perhaps, a touch of athazagoraphobia:D) ... at least, none have shown up in the past 66 years;) Anyway, I checked out "phobias"; and there seems to be one for just about everything. There is even "phobophobia": a fear of phobias:eek:

I suppose one could even come up with some new ones. Mangleodickaphobia: fear of getting your whatsit caught in the mangle. Suffered only by those males born before the advent of the spin cycle.;)


I won't forget you Eric :) Your right there does seem to be one for just about everything.... Mangleodickaphobia:D .....i think some folk on here suffer from Allodoxaphobia :D

Margaret Pilkington 25-10-2012 18:47

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I think you are wrong. We are all entitled to have one...and it doesn't have to agree with yours.

Gordon Booth 25-10-2012 18:59

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Well at least it's good to see ChrisSJ doesn't suffer from catagelophobia.

Eric 25-10-2012 19:08

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I gave this a little serious thought. Although I have a fear of thinking seriously:D But it seems to me that certain fears make sense in terms of evolution: they give us a survival advantage. Several come to mind: Brontophobia, Herpetophobia, Nycotophobia, Selachophobia etc., and have to be part of our evolutionary heritage. But others leave me scratiching my head ... I don't have a fear of that.;)

Gordon Booth 25-10-2012 19:29

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Nycotophobia?
I'm afraid you leave me in the dark with that one, Eric.

Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 20:05

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I had a little think an i cringe if i see someone fall while ice skating because i have a fear of a ice state going over there fingers :eek: I'm also afraid of anything happening to my nearest and dearest ( I can't believe i missed that, i assume we all get that tho) not a phobia i know but it's certainly a fear.

emamum 25-10-2012 20:22

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hospitals/ medical intervention, cant cope with having to go into hospital at all, even the thought of it makes me panic

Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 20:52

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Originally Posted by Eric (Post 1024640)
I gave this a little serious thought. Although I have a fear of thinking seriously:D But it seems to me that certain fears make sense in terms of evolution: they give us a survival advantage. Several come to mind: Brontophobia, Herpetophobia, Nycotophobia, Selachophobia etc., and have to be part of our evolutionary heritage. But others leave me scratiching my head ... I don't have a fear of that.;)

In primitive conditions when coming into contact with something dangerous, the mind/body would create the optimum state for survival – a panic attack.
This type of learning is not of the intellectual or rational type. If we had to think, “Yes,this would be a good time to have a panic attack" our species would probably have died along time ago.
This type of learning takes place at an emotional level so that the response can bypass the ‘rational thinking brain’ In the past, an immediate phobic response to a predatory or poisonous animal would have been pretty useful.
Si we evolved with the ability to become phobic. In today’s world this learning mechanism often works in an inappropriate way.

Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 20:53

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Originally Posted by emamum (Post 1024660)
hospitals/ medical intervention, cant cope with having to go into hospital at all, even the thought of it makes me panic

What are you like with dentist,same? ;)

emamum 25-10-2012 20:55

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im not that bothered about the dentist, its just hospitals

Restless 25-10-2012 20:57

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Originally Posted by Chris SUI JURIS (Post 1024552)

Plus I didn't see a thread about phobias ;) so I thought i'd make one.

Task for you : learn how to use Search

Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 21:02

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Originally Posted by emamum (Post 1024675)
im not that bothered about the dentist, its just hospitals

I know someone with the same fear she says it's that bad she can be physically sick :eek:

Restless 25-10-2012 21:04

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My friends ex-girlfriend had arachnophobia. If she seen a spider she would hide her head inside the storage place under the stairs

emamum 25-10-2012 21:09

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Originally Posted by Chris SUI JURIS (Post 1024680)
I know someone with the same fear she says it's that bad she can be physically sick :eek:


its a full on panic for me, ive had my last 3 babies at home (planned) because i couldnt go into hospital

DaveinGermany 25-10-2012 21:10

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Originally Posted by Restless (Post 1024682)
she would hide her head inside the storage place under the stairs

Where a further half dozen would be happily sitting ! ;)

Restless 25-10-2012 21:12

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Originally Posted by DaveinGermany (Post 1024688)
Where a further half dozen would be happily sitting ! ;)

That's what I thought. :D

Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 21:16

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Originally Posted by emamum (Post 1024687)
its a full on panic for me, ive had my last 3 babies at home (planned) because i couldnt go into hospital

I'm not being facetious but what happens if your i'll and hospital is the only option? is it that bad it could effect your health? (serious i'm interested)

emamum 25-10-2012 21:20

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if i really really really had to then i would go but i would try everything else first. im having physio for a back problem i have (cauda equina if your interested) i went in and had the mri to see what it was, i was taken in at night, i didnt sleep there and the discharged myself and went home, i could have an operation but the neurosurgeon agreed to trying the physio first since it would be impossible for me to be laid up for weeks anyway, seems to be working

Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 21:29

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Guy with Funny Phobia of Peaches - YouTube

While some of us may think some phobias are funny to the phobic they are a very serious issue

Eric 25-10-2012 21:50

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Originally Posted by Gordon Booth (Post 1024648)
Nycotophobia?
I'm afraid you leave me in the dark with that one, Eric.

Mmm ... damn typo ... but you got it anyway;)

Chris SUI JURIS 25-10-2012 22:05

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Originally Posted by emamum (Post 1024696)
if i really really really had to then i would go but i would try everything else first. im having physio for a back problem i have (cauda equina if your interested) i went in and had the mri to see what it was, i was taken in at night, i didnt sleep there and the discharged myself and went home, i could have an operation but the neurosurgeon agreed to trying the physio first since it would be impossible for me to be laid up for weeks anyway, seems to be working

cauda equina seems to be a tricky one with regards to treatment i assume your not of a age to be hanging upside down:Banane13:...I wish you the best of health tho an I'm glad the physio treatments working for you

emamum 25-10-2012 22:09

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Originally Posted by Chris SUI JURIS (Post 1024711)
cauda equina seems to be a tricky one with regards to treatment i assume your not of a age to be hanging upside down:Banane13:...I wish you the best of health tho an I'm glad the physio treatments working for you

thanks :) i have a tens machine for the pain and atm i walk with a stick but thats good, a few weeks ago i couldnt walk at all, got 4 weeks to make good progress and i wont need the op and im very very stubborn and determined so i'll do it :alright:

Eric 25-10-2012 22:46

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Originally Posted by Chris SUI JURIS (Post 1024673)
In primitive conditions when coming into contact with something dangerous, the mind/body would create the optimum state for survival – a panic attack.
This type of learning is not of the intellectual or rational type. If we had to think, “Yes,this would be a good time to have a panic attack" our species would probably have died along time ago.
This type of learning takes place at an emotional level so that the response can bypass the ‘rational thinking brain’ In the past, an immediate phobic response to a predatory or poisonous animal would have been pretty useful.
Si we evolved with the ability to become phobic. In today’s world this learning mechanism often works in an inappropriate way.

I don't be thinking so. It's really much more simple, and can be summed up as: Random mutation, selective retention. I don't believe "learning" is involved. Although I can vaguely agree with your final statement. For example, a liking for fats and sugars is a survival advantage which has outlived its day.

Maybe some consideration should be given to archetypes and the collective unconscious ... but, I'll leave that up to someone who has more interest in psychology, particularly Jungian, than I do.

lindsay ormerod 25-10-2012 23:06

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Originally Posted by Chris SUI JURIS (Post 1024657)
I had a little think an i cringe if i see someone fall while ice skating because i have a fear of a ice state going over there fingers :eek: I'm also afraid of anything happening to my nearest and dearest ( I can't believe i missed that, i assume we all get that tho) not a phobia i know but it's certainly a fear.

Seen in happen on Olympic ice rink in Grenoble, must have been about 1981(?) school exchange trip, visit to the ice rink and some kid got their hand run over by a speed skater, messy, we had to get off the ice whilst the casualty was dealt with then they sent some machine on to clean the ice up. Kid lost 3 fingers, don't know if they saved any.They do teach you to wear gloves and pull your fingers in though.


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