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Diesel 27-01-2008 23:58

Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Even though i am posting under my fiances name(Diesel) i would like other women out there to let me know if their partner even though they know they have done wrong will never admit it!

Why is it when couples have an argument that the man insists that its the womans fault?

I am fairly new to this relationship lark and was hoping for some advice from the more experienced ladies out there.

It is very frustrating!

Is it always like this?

thanks in advance,Laura.

shillelagh 28-01-2008 00:10

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
They never change Laura - you just get used to it!!!

Thing is though getting a man to admit they are in the wrong is very hard to do - not all of them are man enough to admit they are wrong.

To all of you lot yes spug does admit hes in the wrong when he is ........ if he didnt he'd know what i'd do - he'd have a very high pitched voice for at least a month if not life!!! :D:D:D

Diesel 28-01-2008 00:14

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Fair enough!
The thing is that he is only like this when he has had too much to drink!
he is currently asleep on the floor of the spare bedroom and i know he will be really sorry in the morning but am i supposed to put up with this forever and a day?

Diesel 28-01-2008 00:16

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
I have had the same to drink as he has but i dont get like he does,and to be honest it is quite worrying.

shillelagh 28-01-2008 00:32

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Never argue with a drunken fella - no 1 they are never in the wrong, no 2 they can never remember the morning after what theyve said so when you chuck the cup of tea he asked for over him he says whats that for? No 3 fellas can argue for england when drunk so no use trying to get any sense out of them anyway, No 4 just proves that fellas cant hold their booze!!!!

I'd give up and go to bed - you'll need the sleep to be able to deal with him in the morning!!!

slinky 28-01-2008 01:01

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
OH HECK an argumentative drunken man!!

This is my advice....and believe me its a good one! ( married women of 11 years ):)


Go to the spare room door, open very very quietly. Creep to the window, open window wide....and leave the drunken monkey on the floor for the night.

If your feeling very very pee'd off.....pour a little bit of water on his jeans where his willy wonker is ..... that'll give him something to be sorry for :D

MargaretR 28-01-2008 06:56

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
An argumentative drunk is really bad news -reconsider......

lancsdave 28-01-2008 09:51

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
How can men never be wrong ? You can never win with women no mattter how long you live, which effectively means from a male point of view you can never be right :rolleyes:

Diesel 28-01-2008 12:08

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by [email protected] (Post 522918)
An argumentative drunk is really bad news -reconsider......

I wouldnt say he is an argumentative drunk,he rarely gets drunk but when he does its a nightmare.

He was very apologetic this morning and actually admitted he had done wrong so hopefully(maybe i am being naive) we can have a good chat tonight and sort things out.

AccyLass 28-01-2008 12:14

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Sorry no advice to give, but I do hope ya sort it out
One thing I have learnt is, if you ignore things, they do NOT go away:)
Good Luck

MargaretR 28-01-2008 12:14

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
How many nightmares a year can you tolerate? .... why any?

Diesel 28-01-2008 12:20

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by [email protected] (Post 522992)
How many nightmares a year can you tolerate? .... why any?

Because i love him and he loves me.
This is a rarity and 99%of the time he is the most caring,loving gentle man and things are great.
He isnt abusive and has never laid a finger on me he just gets silly very occasionally and i have told him he needs to sort it or we wont last.

MargaretR 28-01-2008 12:23

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
OK .. just don't let love undermine your self respect (as I did.).. it takes a hell of a lot to get it back...... good luck with the love :)

Diesel 28-01-2008 12:25

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by [email protected] (Post 522998)
OK .. just don't let love undermine your self respect (as I did.).. it takes a hell of a lot to get it back...... good luck with the love :)

I wont,thanks for the advice though!

lancsdave 28-01-2008 12:30

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Slightly off topic but I think in fairness you should create your own login on accyweb.

mrskitty 28-01-2008 16:01

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by lancsdave (Post 523000)
Slightly off topic but I think in fairness you should create your own login on accyweb.


Hmm i didnt think about the fact all this is now going to be stored under Diesel's name......plus if anyone wants to look him up to see what his like they will also find this.

Retlaw 28-01-2008 17:37

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by lancsdave (Post 522973)
How can men never be wrong ? You can never win with women no mattter how long you live, which effectively means from a male point of view you can never be right :rolleyes:

Trouble is Dave its all down to logic.

There are three kinds of logic on this earth.

(1) Male logic which says a 1 inch nut will only fit a 1 inch bolt

(2 Computer logic which was designed by a one eyed Klingon translating
Greek with a Chinese dictionary.

(3) Female logic. Thats as wide and variable as there are women on this
planet and varies day to day in 28 day cycles

Retlaw

lancsdave 28-01-2008 17:41

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Retlaw (Post 523114)
Trouble is Dave its all down to logic.

There are three kinds of logic on this earth.

(1) Male logic which says a 1 inch nut will only fit a 1 inch bolt

(2 Computer logic which was designed by a one eyed Klingon translating
Greek with a Chinese dictionary.

(3) Female logic. Thats as wide and variable as there are women on this
planet and varies day to day in 28 day cycles

Retlaw

Oh so true :D

Less 28-01-2008 19:58

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by [email protected] (Post 522998)
OK .. just don't let love undermine your self respect (as I did.).. it takes a hell of a lot to get it back...... good luck with the love :)

Magaret, I understand were you are coming from, but surely you have also seen the other side of the mirror?

A guy goes out with his beloved they are both most amiable to their friends, but she keeps niggling, only slightly to begin with, but the more she drinks, the more she has to mention his shortcomings, until the rest of the group they are out with use any excuse they can to leave them alone, because they know she is going to talk him around to being violent even though with a better partner he would be the most placid guy in the world!

I am not blaming women, but it isn't always the guys fault, Honest.
:o

Neil 28-01-2008 22:27

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Diesel (Post 522900)
I am fairly new to this relationship lark and was hoping for some advice from the more experienced ladies out there...... thanks in advance,Laura.

I have only once peace of advice for you, give good head and he will be true to you :rolleyes:

Lilly 28-01-2008 22:28

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Neil (Post 523335)
I have only once peace of advice for you, give good head and he will be true to you :rolleyes:

It hasn't worked for Cheryl Cole. :rolleyes:

Neil 28-01-2008 22:43

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lilly (Post 523337)
It hasn't worked for Cheryl Cole. :rolleyes:

Just because the News Of The World might say she it good does not make it true.

derekgas 29-01-2008 19:25

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
I thought men wee only right when they arn't breathing, speaking, moving or within sight!

shillelagh 29-01-2008 20:12

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Well i was being nice derek was going to leave it up to one of the others to say that!!!!:D

slinky 29-01-2008 20:13

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
Like " how do you know when a man is lying??" His bloody lips are moving :rolleyes:

panther 31-01-2008 09:43

Re: Why are men never in the wrong?
 
they say never argue with a drunken man!

why not , whats the difference, wether they are drunk ot not, they ALWAYS talk a load of sh!t,:D

if a man cant take his beer he should lay off it!;)


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