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My mate has just had a major bust up with her hubby. She turned up at my place around one o'clock this morning and I gave her a coffee and a brandy. After half an hour she insisted on going home. Five minutes later she was back because the bad git had locked her out.
She's now fast asleep in my spare room and I'm wide awake!!
It's so difficult because I love them both to bits. I can't really say too much about him because I know that they will be the best of friends tomorrow.
Flippin' heck!!

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Sounds like you did just right Junetta. Opening up your house twice to your friend and just being there. I do hope they caan get a handle on these types of situations before tha=ey turn violent!

Cheers!

Brian

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erm i work as a doorman and for the home office

thats what i do :S

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best thing ...don't take sides , leave it to them to sort out , you take sides , next thing you know your an interfering ****** and both fall out with you , and bad mouth you to everyone

:D :D :D

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spot on there steeljack

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i have been in the same situation myself june the advice the others have given you is good.just be there for them both & not in the middle, karma on way for your caring ways ....x

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I agree dont take sides just be supportive, good luck.

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its probably just a lovers tiff and they'll be back together before you know it, lkie grego says just be there for them both, and dont take sides

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You did exactly the right thing...as everyone else says too.
Just be there for them...that's about all you can do.

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Well, I'm sorry, will be in the minority here I know, but having suffered the intrusion of friends in the past due to their 'tiffs' and a night's sleep ruined on many occasions, have now hardened to this state of affairs and would have boxed her ears and sent her home.

Different, of course, if he is a wife beater etc., but sounds all very churlish to me, and feel you should be cruel to be kind here... sorry ... :(

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Iam glad you did not put her out ont the street,s and took in to your safe hands {well done) good luck

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I agree with kate! as my mum and dad have always told me you should never go to sleep on a argument!! What would happen if one of them did somat stupid? the other one would never be able to forgive themselves.:(

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yeah best thing to do is leave them to it