Broody
 

After weeks of discussions etc me and Corker have decided not to try for another baby (for many reasons),only problem with this is im still left feeling VERY broody.
This is not helped by nearly everyone around me being pregnant or having their babies at the moment....anyone got any tips to stop the broodiness...
PLEASE DO NOT say look after someones baby......it makes me worse (even if i look after them for long lengths of time).



SOMEONE HELP ME :(

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Thanks for your reply....at least you didnt come out with 'remember all those dirty nappies and nights awake with a crying baby'.....boring.
I was considering voluntary work before the baby idea crept up on me,but i have no one to look after Jack whilst i do it.....his dads at Uni and my fella works long hours :( therefor id have to pay for childcare :S

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that depends on what you decide to do and when you do it. Look at CVS (think they have website). ther maybe something for Jack to join when he is older to give him a direction

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BLIMEY KITT
thank god u decided not to try for another, you and your fella only been together a short while , You should be enjoying each other not thinking about babies !!!! You got Jack to keep you busy and give you so much pleasure ... Enjoy what you have for now and let nature give you the intended in due time . dont force it .
The broodyness will pass and return and pass and return and pass. you will know when its right for you on a serious level and not just because its trendy atm .. good luck hun xx

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Dont worry Kitty will send my pre teen brood down - will soon stop the broodiness, gawd constant sniping, moaning, winging, stropping, money costs, oh & hiding piggin milk from me too - a new one:(

Definitely borrow a baby/tot now & again great for laughs & cuddles, then hand back over when the noisey crying starts or the nappys full:D

Arn't kiddies lovely :rolleyes:

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i am having the same problem kitty, we have been trying for 6 months and its not working, i am trying not to think about it but its not working..

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How many have you got already emamum23?

I really need to get this broodiness sorted :(

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i got my broodiness sorted lol

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dont think its the way you would want to sort it tho

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Your not helping Kathleen! ;)

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Just the one and he is 6 now....

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She's already got one of her own! :D

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BROODY!!!......rather you than me!
ive had my kids...do I want anymore??.....NOOO!!

ya only 23 kitty, youve got loads of time yet!!

enjoy yourself!!

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I've never been broody. Might be because i looked after my nephews and nieces and also had my mum to look after. I always said when i was growing up though if i had kids then i had them but otherwise its never bothered me. I've always done voluntary work though and did a lot with kids cub and scout leader for a couple of years and then a brownie guide leader for god knows how many, then helped out in the local primary school. An idea for you if Jack goes to nursery then volunteer at the primary school for a couple of hours while hes there. You can always ask.

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Im dying to have another baby, i have been trying for another but its not happening, but im not giving up, like my mum says, when the time is right it will happen.
Misskitty u say that you and your partner have both agreed not to have any more babys but are u 100% sure of that decision or has ur partner push you a bit into it, dont get mad,only asking.

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The way that is written suggests if she is 100% ready to have one and he isn't then she should do it anyway. Not the best method of happy families I can think of :)

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Thats not the way i meant it so im sorry it sounded like that

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Dont worry Yolanda i know what you meant X
were are both not 100% ready.......i know i couldn't cope at home with Jack AND a newborn on my own from 8am till 7pm,and money would be very tight,just at the stage where things are getting easier with money where Jack is concerned.



Sorry to hear you too are having trouble concieving Yolanda,but like your mum says when the time is right,it will happen xXx