Political Claptrap

[chav1]

accymel i did say plenty of people had valid reasons , i know a little of your situation from previous discusions but its not for me to bring them up especialy on a public forum , people die leaving one parent behind and some mothers have to leave abusive relationships like one of my ex's had to and probbaly more valid reasons but like i said there are peopel out there milking teh system and its not a small number especialy when you see some people having a child every 5 years or less just to avoid been made to get a job

i am mainly refering to the type who leave school , get pregnant by anyone then spend teh rest of tehir lives chuning out babys and die without ever doing a days work

as for you dave

you may find it hard coping but believe me i would kill to be in the position you are in right now as i would wnat nothing more than have to wory about where i was going to send my son after school instead of only seeing him a few hours each week

swings and roundabouts mate

[accymel]

On one of my units Aced

*making your community aware of lone parent family issues*

I do all the time where needed ie this thread i cant help myself hehehehe

[WillowTheWhisp]

Well I was a single parent for a while and I certainly didn't choose for my late husband to die in hospital.

[chav1]

people seem to be skipping this part of my post so i will highlight it a bit -

here goes folks

here it comes

get your reading glasses if you need them


i did say plenty of people had valid reasons

[lancsdave]

Originally Posted by chav1

accymel i did say plenty of people had valid reasons , i know a little of your situation from previous discusions but its not for me to bring them up especialy on a public forum , people die leaving one parent behind and some mothers have to leave abusive relationships like one of my ex's had to and probbaly more valid reasons but like i said there are peopel out there milking teh system and its not a small number especialy when you see some people having a child every 5 years or less just to avoid been made to get a job

i am mainly refering to the type who leave school , get pregnant by anyone then spend teh rest of tehir lives chuning out babys and die without ever doing a days work

as for you dave

you may find it hard coping but believe me i would kill to be in the position you are in right now as i would wnat nothing more than have to wory about where i was going to send my son after school instead of only seeing him a few hours each week

swings and roundabouts mate

Of course it's swings and roundabouts but although I don't have any facts and figures to prove it I think you will find the steroetyping you do of single parents ( ie teenage mothers) represents a very tiny minority. You never ever see a teenage fatherless male scrounging off the state do you

[WillowTheWhisp]

Originally Posted by chav1

people seem to be skipping this part of my post so i will highlight it a bit -

here goes folks

here it comes

get your reading glasses if you need them


i did say plenty of people had valid reasons

Ah yes Chav - you said that but the point is how does the government view it?

[chav1]

Originally Posted by lancsdave

You never ever see a teenage fatherless male scrounging off the state do you

eh ??

i was a teenage fatherless male and had a job , do i fit that criteia ?


bit hard to understand what you mean here !

[flashy]

Originally Posted by lancsdave

Of course it's swings and roundabouts but although I don't have any facts and figures to prove it I think you will find the steroetyping you do of single parents ( ie teenage mothers) represents a very tiny minority. You never ever see a teenage fatherless male scrounging off the state do you

dave could we have that last bit in english please

[flashy]

i was a teenage motherless female and i had a job

[accymel]

U need to go round to rindy's to watch Jezza mate, his main bugbear is the fact that many young adults - quite capable to work but would rather excuse themselves on drinking, drugs, gambling, playing ps games all day long & have sex without a condom with little disregard for the consequences - but thats a different thread Chav!!

If anyone really wants to make a career choice of being a lone parent its not as easy as it looks!!

[accymel]

Originally Posted by chav1

eh ??

i was a teenage fatherless male and had a job , do i fit that criteia ?


bit hard to understand what you mean here !

Read my post above it explains what he was getting at i think well as i interpretted it so expanded

[WillowTheWhisp]

I think he meant teenage lone parent fathers.

[lancsdave]

Originally Posted by chav1

eh ??

i was a teenage fatherless male and had a job , do i fit that criteia ?


bit hard to understand what you mean here !

I was being sarcastic and referring to the fact there are probably more teenage fatherless males out there who can't be arsed working and live off benefits than there are teenage girls who delibarately get themselves pregnant to avoid work and live off the state.

[lancsdave]

Originally Posted by accymel

Read my post above it explains what he was getting at i think well as i interpretted it so expanded

Well spotted

[flashy]

eh??????????? dave are you tired today?