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thursday 25th march, Here we go we are now starting on the rollercoaster, i was at jets whilst she went shopping, dan was on his p/c playing games in his bedroom ....the phone rings its christies hospital they have an appointment for him for tommorrow morning at 10-30am thats friday the 26th march, god the appointment seems so fast ..i know i know its better this way but it makes you think, im glad its so quick lets get him on the chemo, but i really don't want to see his reaction to it, poor lad dosn't know what to expect, mabe they will explain it to him tommorrow, hope they do then he really knows what he has to face.
wev'e had a really good afternoon today a few laughs a few down to earth talks ( think jet a bit upset that he talks to me ) but i have explained that im nearly 65yrs old & been through more than her & im wise enough to make things that seem bad into a little joke but getting the point over at the same time, i just want to help him get a grasp of things & as i told him today yes people who have cancer do go out with their mates, yes they do have fun, yes life goes on it dosn't stop just because you have gone bald & you might be in a wheelchair ( that he dosn't approve of ..the wheelchair) but im working on him :rolleyes:, i will be back on tommorrow with how it went with his new doctor at christies to let you know what went on .......mez x x ...bless you all for reading my blog & your comments DO help me .......mez x x
 
Me too Mez......and tell Jet that at least her lovely son has someone he can offload to.....and in his way he is offloading to you so that he protects his Mum......If he offloaded to his Mum,I am sure they would both get upset at the enormity of what is coming......and he probably knows that you will tell Jet his thought and feelings(suitably toned down,or sanitized, or made more palatable...because he knows that you know her better even than he does)......and as for the wheelchair...tell him that he can have some modifications made to it(go faster stripes, wide tyres, a chrome exhaust...and a Ipod docking thingy).

And tomorrow, ask questions...write them down in advance so that you don't forget.

I will have everything crossed for you.
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You know how i feel i came to see you yesterday and spoke to you on phone today .
I also know how Janette must feel so keep up your good work which i know you will and Janette will get through it with your help which i know you are giving .
 
Good luck for tomorrow, shame calling it the magic medicine wouldn't wash with dan eh!!!??!! take care all of you xxxxxxx
 
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