As some of the members of accyweb are aware i have brought my granddaughter up since the age of 11 years old, no problem you would say, but i soon found that susan had very bad learning difficulties, i fought to get her into my custody through the courts, then fought the education system & duly got her into the school i wanted her to be educated at ...broadfield special school, we had up’s & downs trails & tribulations but she succeeded, leaving broadfield with fabulous results, she then went to Blackburn college & duly past her foundation course in childcare (all with special help) then past her level 1 in childcare, then they told us she would not pass the level 2, susan was distraught , nan said lets try Accrington college ..see if they can offer you something, great she got a place ....& studied for her level 2 childcare which she got, we were then told sorry but there is no way can she pass the level 3, she just scrapped through on level 2 ......so we ummed & ahhed .....i put my thinking cap & the laptop on & searched & searched.as a young child growing up, i had thousands of arguments with her mother ..but to no avail, i eventually moved back to Accrington in 1995 after living in anglesey wales for some 15yrs, leaving susan & her mum living down there,things came to a head in 1999 when i was sent susan by her mum to me to stay for a few we Now im going off the above to explain things, susan was phsycally emotionally & sexually abused eks .you can see the rest above.
We had some good times i gave her a life i thought she loved, i took her abroad on holiday’s, by coach & ferry first & she loved it, then we flew one time & she hated it, i took her, dan, Jordan (dans brother) to Disneyland paris for her 15th birthday oh our Jet came too of course , we had a great time & the bonfire fireworks were spectacular, now it came that susan thought she was too old to come away with me & had made special friends here in the street & at school, so i started going away with my friends just for weekends at first to see how she would cope , she did very well, so i ventured to 1 week away & she was quite happy with that, then she started going to her friend jody’s in b/burn for the odd weekend by this time she was 18yrs old & had numerous holidays with her mum back in wales then her mum moved up here, susan was well chuffed, then astime went on susan had a couple of boyfriends 1 soon disappeared off the scene , but the other stayed around awhile longer, then he was off the boyfriend scene but they remained good friends. Now susan had a lot of freedom as well as her chores to do & things ran quite smoothly in our house , apart from susan not wanting me to redecorate her bedroom that was her security blanked (as well as a red jumper that she was bought by our jet when she was 11) ..its still the same apart from her computer dvd & playstation & her personal stuff. Now when she was 19 & 1/2yrs she met a man!!! I did not know this at the time but they were “friends” for over 12 months before susan decided to tell me (she used to go to a special needs evenings at a club in b/burn & thats were she met him )...now she told me about him in the February of 2008, & i arranged for him to come here,” he is 27yrs old nan & i love him”......... i nearly fainted when i saw him ..i was angry shocked distraught& god only knows what else ..........he looked more like 50yrs old with obvious dyed jet black hair, oh my god i said to our jet after they had gone he gives me the creeps im convinced he’s a p........ you know what i mean ...now i had a word not shouted or lost my temper with susan as she wanted to move in with him, oh god im in a panic, i talked her into staying for another 12months & by this time she would be 21yrs old, i was hoping it would fizzle out ........no chance .. she went out on the Saturday26th april last year..& never came back again, i had police & social services alerted & all agreed that he was a .....shall we say suspicious person.begining with P, now because susan had past her level 2 in childcare there was nothing they could do to bring her back, my friends rallied round & i was not left on my own during the day or evening whilst all this was going on ...i was numb ...i had been backed into a wall i couldn’t help her, what am i going to do what can i do, i was due to go away on the Friday to blackpool with the my friends for the weekend , i was getting horrible texts ..supposedly off susan, but i knew different ...susan never texted more than 3 words ever,she eventually came on the Thursday with 2 big built men & IT.. to pick her clothes up, i had 4 women friends & 1 neighbour ......they eventually picked up all susans clothes & small stuff up ......... 9 wheelie bin bags full 6 large bags & 8 carrier bags full, i demanded her keys back & one of the girls took it off her, i never saw or heard from her since...............now i said i was going away ....i had the locks changed alerted the police & my neighbours to keep their eyes on my house as i was leaving with the girls in the taxi waiting for me .........i froze i could not leave the house or my dog sam .i was crying & telling the girls i could not go, but my beautiful friends made me lock the door & go with them ..(its ok my friend came & looked after sam) , now the expected happened & on the 2nd of april this year susan had a baby girl ....chloe louise ...yes she is beautiful i have only seen photo’s of her , her mum was in contact with susan ..but last night it all kicked off again .....happy news susan & baby chloe were going to stay at mums house for the weekend ..............then it changed ..susan was coming on her own leaving chloe with IT........now they live next door to a convicted phedo ........whose girlfriends has had a few babies taken off her by social services..............i went balistic when susans mum rang to tell me ...now its finished up were ...IT ... has stopped susan’s mum from seeing her 1st grandchild ............she has rung the social services the child dept this morning & ive got a fabulously clean kitchen .............im stuck again i can’t do owt ................now you know why im dissalussioned . ITS A CRUEL WORLD !!!! believe me ........... mez x x
We had some good times i gave her a life i thought she loved, i took her abroad on holiday’s, by coach & ferry first & she loved it, then we flew one time & she hated it, i took her, dan, Jordan (dans brother) to Disneyland paris for her 15th birthday oh our Jet came too of course , we had a great time & the bonfire fireworks were spectacular, now it came that susan thought she was too old to come away with me & had made special friends here in the street & at school, so i started going away with my friends just for weekends at first to see how she would cope , she did very well, so i ventured to 1 week away & she was quite happy with that, then she started going to her friend jody’s in b/burn for the odd weekend by this time she was 18yrs old & had numerous holidays with her mum back in wales then her mum moved up here, susan was well chuffed, then astime went on susan had a couple of boyfriends 1 soon disappeared off the scene , but the other stayed around awhile longer, then he was off the boyfriend scene but they remained good friends. Now susan had a lot of freedom as well as her chores to do & things ran quite smoothly in our house , apart from susan not wanting me to redecorate her bedroom that was her security blanked (as well as a red jumper that she was bought by our jet when she was 11) ..its still the same apart from her computer dvd & playstation & her personal stuff. Now when she was 19 & 1/2yrs she met a man!!! I did not know this at the time but they were “friends” for over 12 months before susan decided to tell me (she used to go to a special needs evenings at a club in b/burn & thats were she met him )...now she told me about him in the February of 2008, & i arranged for him to come here,” he is 27yrs old nan & i love him”......... i nearly fainted when i saw him ..i was angry shocked distraught& god only knows what else ..........he looked more like 50yrs old with obvious dyed jet black hair, oh my god i said to our jet after they had gone he gives me the creeps im convinced he’s a p........ you know what i mean ...now i had a word not shouted or lost my temper with susan as she wanted to move in with him, oh god im in a panic, i talked her into staying for another 12months & by this time she would be 21yrs old, i was hoping it would fizzle out ........no chance .. she went out on the Saturday26th april last year..& never came back again, i had police & social services alerted & all agreed that he was a .....shall we say suspicious person.begining with P, now because susan had past her level 2 in childcare there was nothing they could do to bring her back, my friends rallied round & i was not left on my own during the day or evening whilst all this was going on ...i was numb ...i had been backed into a wall i couldn’t help her, what am i going to do what can i do, i was due to go away on the Friday to blackpool with the my friends for the weekend , i was getting horrible texts ..supposedly off susan, but i knew different ...susan never texted more than 3 words ever,she eventually came on the Thursday with 2 big built men & IT.. to pick her clothes up, i had 4 women friends & 1 neighbour ......they eventually picked up all susans clothes & small stuff up ......... 9 wheelie bin bags full 6 large bags & 8 carrier bags full, i demanded her keys back & one of the girls took it off her, i never saw or heard from her since...............now i said i was going away ....i had the locks changed alerted the police & my neighbours to keep their eyes on my house as i was leaving with the girls in the taxi waiting for me .........i froze i could not leave the house or my dog sam .i was crying & telling the girls i could not go, but my beautiful friends made me lock the door & go with them ..(its ok my friend came & looked after sam) , now the expected happened & on the 2nd of april this year susan had a baby girl ....chloe louise ...yes she is beautiful i have only seen photo’s of her , her mum was in contact with susan ..but last night it all kicked off again .....happy news susan & baby chloe were going to stay at mums house for the weekend ..............then it changed ..susan was coming on her own leaving chloe with IT........now they live next door to a convicted phedo ........whose girlfriends has had a few babies taken off her by social services..............i went balistic when susans mum rang to tell me ...now its finished up were ...IT ... has stopped susan’s mum from seeing her 1st grandchild ............she has rung the social services the child dept this morning & ive got a fabulously clean kitchen .............im stuck again i can’t do owt ................now you know why im dissalussioned . ITS A CRUEL WORLD !!!! believe me ........... mez x x
