For The Attention Of Mick & Accyweb

mez · 18-11-2008, 18:07

As of tonight i resign my post as "entertainmet co-ordinator" i am sick to the back teeth of accyweb & its "pettyness" " back biting " & innuendo's.

If you have not noticed quite a lot of the original members have distanced themselves from this site & with good cause too.As im now doing so.

i won't miss this site at all. good luck to mick & all mods. GOOD BYE ALL.

please take a look at my avatar .............that should give you a hint of my feelings.

glasgow guy · 18-11-2008, 18:17

such a shame you feel that way,
sorry to see you go..

flashy · 18-11-2008, 19:33

dont go Mez

you will be very muchly missed

West Ender · 18-11-2008, 21:01

I don't take any notice of the carping, bitching, etc., even when it's directed at me. As far as I'm concerned this is just a website, it's not real life, and I can take it or leave it as the mood takes me. If a thread gets nasty, personal, whatever, I just don't post. If something interests me, annoys me or I disagree strongly, I say so and that's the end of it. If I get a nasty reply - it's water off a duck's back and, to be honest, it usually makes me laugh (especially when the spelling's a bit iffy

).

Mez, if you want to stop posting that's your prerogative. I presume you're announcing your decision to make a point and it's sad that you feel you need to do so. It's been nice talking to you.

flashy · 18-11-2008, 21:01

it'll all be nice again on Friday, i'm off

so please come back

derekgas · 18-11-2008, 21:20

Aww mez, please dont, who will I take the mickey out of at meets?

And who will give me a slap for being lippy? You are one of the good reasons to go to a meet in the first place, I and many others enjoy your company, and your wit, I am not usually violent, but may be forced to come down to yours and tie ya up, chuck you in the car, and carry you to the meet... AND I will probably get plenty of offers of help! please dont leave accyweb mez! x

katex · 18-11-2008, 21:24

Just wondering if that fairy has got a bad case of ingrowing toenail, verrucas or fungal infection ...

harwood red · 18-11-2008, 22:32

Awww sorry to hear this Mez, will miss you!! I have more or less ignored a lot of the pettiness on here but must admit I do post less, not sure why but half the time it is I just can't be bothered, which I suppose is not good!!

MUMMIBOO · 19-11-2008, 09:05

Oh eck Mez, Things must be getting pretty bad for you to say those things and mean them as i feel you do at this precise moment. You will be missed greatly by some of us take care in all you do in your life Mez i hope this is not the last i hear from you. xxx

jaysay · 19-11-2008, 09:34

I have to say that I'm sorry Mez has decided to throw the towel in, the only way to change things is to stay and fight your corner, and point out when you think people are out of line. From my own point of view, I never really take things serious, I can have a dust up with other members but hey I just forget about it afterwards. When you consider we have around 15000 members which is growing every day, Accy Web must be one of the best of its kind anywhere, you only have to take a look at other local sites to see what I mean, although I like these other sites there is nothing like Accy Web. Its only when you are unable to access this site that you realise what your missing, I know I did. Please Mez think about it before you make final decision, no one wants to see you leave, especially if its through other people and remember if some one really upsets you you can always tell them were to get off (

) seems to work for me

Caz · 19-11-2008, 09:41

Jaysay, where has anyone had a bust up with Mez? who would want to? she's lovely. If it's referring to the meet thread, which it seems to be, people were voicing their opinions and giving suggestions, what on earth is wrong with that?

jaysay · 19-11-2008, 11:11

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caz

Jaysay, where has anyone had a bust up with Mez? who would want to? she's lovely. If it's referring to the meet thread, which it seems to be, people were voicing their opinions and giving suggestions, what on earth is wrong with that?

I was referring to bust ups in general, of which there are many on here.

BLACKBURN RAVER · 19-11-2008, 19:05

BYE !!!!

Eric · 19-11-2008, 19:50

If the only problem is "pettiness" (backbiting and innuendo, fit well into the general "petty" category) why elevate it into something important, or legitimize it by quitting ... I realize that ignoring it won't make it go away, but, if your foot itches, scratch it; don't amputate your leg.

However, sorry to see you go

.... hope you change your mind.

lindsay ormerod · 19-11-2008, 20:14

Seems a bit ott to me too, don't get me wrong, I like Mez and appreciate what she has done but, hey, if you don't want the responsibility, just step away from that area, I know how these meets have gone and I know how annoying it is when things fall on their arse ( Accy Cricket Club, made special effort to get real ale on , fitted new pump, total turn up..... 5).
Folk won't commit and too complacent, so make it more casual, suggest a date, no pressure, no pub is gonna turn down the business and whoever can make it does so.
I personally haven't been to the last couple because since becoming a Mod I was treated differently ( stupid and petty but true) and because I don't want to be in the same room as some folk on here. ( sad but true).
But I will commit to attending one in the New Year regardless of who is there and how I am treated; Accyweb should be one big happy family, those that have made it otherwise know who they are and hopefully will either rectify their behaviour or take themselves elsewhere.