[Margaret Pilkington]

Yes...I was alluding to the fact that you don't necessarily have to have participated in erotica(or what passes for erotica...personally I think what one person finds erotic can be a turn off to others) to know of its existence.
During my working life I was told things that should have made my hair curl.......but it didn't make me want to go out and try some of the things that these 'ladies' told me.