[Sunflower49]

Originally Posted by annesingleton

Sorry but shame on you don't care if I upset anyone here at the moment but I'm sure your'e worth a lot more than getting your bits out for the lads in some backwater place like Accrington - I'd prefer you to be on the dole if I was you. I feel very strongly about this and to me if you think you aren't worth anything better than this then it's a sorry state of affairs for women in general, have some self respect for yourself. If I upset you or anyone else on this site then I apologise but I will not change my beliefs here.

What's 'Better' please, by your definition? you think it's 'better' to work more, for less money in a job I probably won't like?Correct me if I am wrong but that appears to be what you are saying.

I work 20 hours a week (that includes all travel) for a wage more than most people earn in 40 hours.

I have two degrees, one being a Master's.I got a first in both. My job is an informed decision. How many people can say they love their jobs?I truly can. I provide a service that is still in demand.

As for the dole, I feel strongly about the amount of people spending *your* money, (assuming you have a job) rather than earning their way-I will never sponge off the government, there are enough people doing that. That you would do it if you were me, well, if my aunt had balls she'd be my uncle.

Also there is no need for apologies hun-there are about 5 people in this world whose opinions I value. You may take a guess as to whether or not you are one of them

Originally Posted by Wynonie Harris

If you don't agree with it, fine, but who are you to start telling her what she should and shouldn't do, imposing your own moral beliefs on someone else? It's not illegal, so she's perfectly free to do as she pleases without high-handed censure from the likes of you. As for your sneering description of Accrington as a "backwater place" I think that perfectly illustrates your own innate snobbery.

Thank you for the support.

Originally Posted by Guinness

Oh right so first you insult the girl for earning a living, tell her to go on the dole and then you quantify it by apologising.

Have you actually seen her at work, to enable you to make such a vehement attack, or are you getting all your information from CSI Miami and Rev Kev weekly?

It's pompous and self righteous of you to attempt to impose your view of what constitutes self respect and how someone should earn a living. From the outset she has fronted up and told everyone what she does. To date she has come across as intelligent, self effacing and has not done a bad job at fitting in on this viper ridden forum.

All she is doing is the 21'st century version of Pan's People/Hot Gossip, and frankly she probably covers more of her body than most of the girls walking around town on an average friday night.

Thanks, I appreciate it !

Originally Posted by Restless

Hmm It says on sugar's profile that she found out about accyweb at iCandy. Does that mean Accyweb are official sponsors of iCandy?

Haha yes without you lot I would never have heard of the place!

Originally Posted by flashy

Rob, she already said she was looking for info on the net about icandy and this thread came up lol

Originally Posted by jaysay

Sorry Anne can't agree one little bit, it is very easy for people to call others who sit on their backsides all day holding out their hands for benefits, if this lass is prepared to move over here for work, no matter what it is, we should applaud her not defile her, when I worked in the night clubs we had GoGo dancers, to me just the same as pole dancing but probably a bit more erotic, but hey the lass is pulling her finger out and working for a living congratulate her don't knock her

I feel quite humbled by all this-I've only been on here a week or something!

Originally Posted by churchfcrules

although i agree with what you say jay, i can also see the the other point made, it may be legal, but anne has an issue with it morally, sure ones own moral compass must decide, thats why some people choose a career outside of the law, ie prostitution, drug dealer, burglar. if any of those things were made legal would you find it morally acceptable to do any of those activities, if it meant not receiving state handouts?

anyone working in (for the want of a better phrase) "the legal sex trade", porn,sex shop, erotic dancing,sex lines, i am sure they have heard the moral argument a thousand times, and it has to come with the territory, and you accept it or change job, you are never going to change peoples minds on this one.

Yes, well I've been a dancer on and off for ten years. Not much I haven't heard. If she doesn't like it, then I don't recall asking her to come and pay for a dance from me

Originally Posted by Wynonie Harris

Exactly, but Anne seems to want everyone else's moral compass to be the same as hers. If she doesn't agree with lap dancing, that's up to her, but to start abusing sugarmouse with phrases like "shame on you" shows Anne to be just as intolerant as the likes of Logan.

If you don't like it, don't go. Simple as.

PS - Sugarmouse, they don't by any chance do senior citizens' rates, do they? Just asking for a friend.

Thank you-it's okay, this business does nothing if not wonders for growing a thick skin. If she wants to abuse me because it makes her feel better then bring it on although, Anne, it seems you've rattled people a bit. Perhaps private abuse would have been the better thing to do.
Wynonie as you've been so supportive, tell your 'friend' to come see me, I will give them a couple minutes extra

Thanks again everyone