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Originally Posted by jaysay
Spelling and grammar don't matter, um ya want to see the stick I get  |
I am a bit of a grammar nazi on the quiet. It doesn't matter as much on a forum as it does elsewhere though-it's when I see mistakes in newspapers, advertisements, supermarkets...etc that's when I get riled!
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Originally Posted by churchfcrules
i love a good thread wander, and seen as though its MY thread, here we go
on sexploitation of women, if your partner was visiting a regular website\stripclub\lap dancing club or similar, and you found out, would you feel as angry as if they had been having an extra marital/relationship affair, or would you see it as at least they havent had physical contact with someone else, so no harm done, also is it on the same scale as finding out they look at porn, or is it worse because its not anonymous?
i think many would see it as a betrayal, i guess its more of a question for women, but thats just because i am being sexist and assuming that the majority of the activities i stated above are predominantly male "indulgences", but fellas how would you feel if your partner was doing any of the above, interesting to see how male attitudes compares to female attitudes.
i can see the point, that whilst visiting said establishment, they arent having an affair, as this suppress that need, much in the same way as the argument that it is "supplying a service" to prevent potential rapists carrying out their crimes(by the way, i dont doubt this, but is there any evidence, i dont see how it can be measured, and without evidence can it be used as an argument )
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For me the key is 'Found Out'. If he had lied about where he had been, or simply didn't tell me and I found out through other channels, there's something wrong-why's he covering his actions?
If a partner of mine went to a strip club on a night out with his friends and told me he was going to, I wouldn't care unless our relationship was already showing cracks.
I cannot envision a guy saying to me 'I'm going to (insertnameoft1ttybar) tonight, alone and it being okay-if he wants to do it alone he is wanting more than a dance-he's wanting a strip club experience where he is getting sole attention from women. I think that's different and again, would signify cracks in a relationship.
Porn, if I had a partner that looked at porn when I wasn't around, I wouldn't mind-porn's just an aid to self-sex!If he would RATHER look at porn than have sex with ME, then, again-something wrong with our relationship.
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Originally Posted by Gordon Booth
Morality? It's an interesting concept but a very human one. Does it really exist?
None of us on here are murderers
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Do you know that for certain
On morality, you may be right. If we appear to have morals it may be because of another underlying emotion...
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Originally Posted by Margaret Pilkington
Nope, that doesn't float my boat either.(I didn't buy this book, but it was loaned to me, with the words 'you'll love this, I didn't....I couldn't finish it) Badly written and very contrived, the only reason this was written was to make money for the author - no literary value at all. I consider myself a bit of a prude really.
I do not want to read about someone else's bedroom acrobatics...in my opinion(for what it is worth) those things should be private and remain private.
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I couldn't even tell you waht this book was about. I don't know anybody who has read it-BUT I was standing in a supermarket queue not so long ago and the woman in front was complaining to the assistant, about the fact that this supermarket had it for sale. I actually intervened toward the end, and said 'You know a good idea? If you don't like the book? Don't read it!!'