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Originally Posted by annesingleton
No matter how people might dress it up, you work in the sex industry as a sex worker which has a lot of risk attached to it and no matter whether you like it will portray you as a certain type of woman who is fair game to a lot of men you know nothing about and who will be likely to have a low opinion about you. Your audience won't consist entirely of stag night groups and nice lads out for a bit of fun, as I'm sure you know. It therefore makes you vulnerable. The sex industry has a lot of criminality associated to it at all levels. I think that although I agree with Oscar Wilde, you can enjoy life without risking your safety which you should take seriously. From a personal perspective I work with some dangerous people in a profession where personal safety is taken very seriously, I would never go glibly into a situation without having thought through potential risks and having strategies in place to keep me safe - I would never presume that I can handle things and nothing will happen to me - such an attitude displays a level of arrogance which could end up with a very bad situation. Your comment about the police suggests a fly attitude and whether you are joking or not I am certain that they were not looking for a "perv".
My previous comment about my posts coming across as "not nice" and sounding patronising - I meant that as an adult you are entitled to make your own decisions and do what you want and I have no right to either preach to you, lecture you or judge you. I suppose our values are just completely opposing - I couldn't do your job if my life depended on it, I would feel humiliated and debased - you are obviously comfortable with it and so I wish you well.
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Sorry anne they weren't nice and were patronising whichever way you wrap um up
