Quote:
Originally Posted by Graham Hartley
Yes, there are many here and elsewhere who can't stand my company and are most forthright in saying so. Such is not the case here. I'm at work when she attends, and I pay her via a third party. Indeed, she was chosen by a third party, such is the risk that misogyny will spoil the enterprise. The help I offer is financial - sorry to confuse.
|
I don't think you are very fair. It isn't that we do not like your company...you just do not go out of your way to be liked....but this again, is your choice.
You come across as a very curmudgeonly person.
That may be really who you are, or you may have developed this facade as some sort of shield.
I can get along with most folk who are prepared to be a bit courteous and kind....after all, we are all treading a stony uphill road.
Maybe you don't want to be liked, valued by other people. Maybe your attitude is like it or lump it....it isn't an endearing trait.