[Margaret Pilkington]

Well, I can't access the YouTube stuff.
I can speak from personal experience though....having had a family member commit suicide.
I can also speak from my experience of life......and I know that the female brain works in a different way to the male brain. From the age of 11 I was responsible for care of three brothers(all younger than me) it made me develop skills that perhaps I would not have developed had this not been the case.

I was taught to look for dangers in life, to prepare strategies.....almost to expect the unexpected.
Children these days do not get those life skills.
Despondency comes from feeling like you have no control.....but in most cases there is always something you can do......and it is these things which have to be focused on.

See the glass half full.....not half empty.