[WillowTheWhisp]

Originally Posted by garinda

Also gay visibility is good because every one presumes every one is straight unless they are screamingly camp, so most people don' t know they know a gay person, when in fact their hairdresser may in fact be gay!

But why on earth should it matter to me whether my hairdresser is gay or not? It doesn't affect their ability as a hairdresser so it should be kept to themselves. I have an aquaintance who may or may not be gay and I have actually been asked by other people if he is or isn't. I just reply that I don't know and I don't care because it's none of my business. If he ever got married then I suppose I'd presume he was heterosexual. As he is single he could be gay or he could just prefer his own company. Why should it matter to anyone else?