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Originally Posted by g78
You are born gay. Simple as. You don't wake up one day and decide to be gay, its just something thats inbuilt in you. There is only one choice to make, you either accept it and live with it or you hide it and live a life of lies.
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I do not accept that a person is born gay. If that was the case, there would be a definite genetic basis, and there isn't. However, you come back to the point, if you accept it, you must live with it and all its consequences.
The life of lies sometimes seems to mean to have the best of both worlds - there are several well-known cases of men having a wife and a family and then coming out - their choice, but other people's lives are wrecked totally. In any event, if you are truly homosexual, how do you manage to have a family? - if you have no physical desire for the opposite sex, then that would be virtually impossible, but it happens.