[Margaret Pilkington]

Neil, I am sure that in the time I have been on this forum, it has been recognised that I am a cynical old baggage.
Being female as well, I am perverse, contrary. If someone tells me that I cannot do something I will do my utmost to prove them wrong...equally if someone tells me I HAVE to do something I will do my best not to do it...employing whatever means are necessary.

That is just the way I am. My sense of esteem does not rely on what anyone else thinks of me. I am past all that. If I please myself I know that at least one person(the most important one) is happy.
And frequently what I am saying is what others out there are thinking, it is just that you are not one of them!