[Margaret Pilkington]

It is definitely like that....I think that all the small villages(and that is what they are) have this culture.
My father and grandfather were both born, christened and married in the churches in Clayton....but because I did not move here until I was 19....I am an incomer.
Not that it bothers me overmuch as many of those who called me that are looking on the meadows of eternity(sounds a bit more sensitive than 'dead').