[Margaret Pilkington]

You might be right about the upbringing bit….but that doesn’t fit with my situation as we were brought up using the same moral code…..so maybe my nasty siblings learned their greedy grasping confrontational behaviour.

Son, I do hope that when the time comes that you have to do this last sad task for your Dad, that you all pull together and in the same direction…and that once it is all done you still are the same lads you were before you had this job to do.

And yes…I hope it is a long time off.
Treasure him…..you do not know how hard it is once they are gone.