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Re: Discipline
a slap may be enough for upto the age of 10 but when your dealing with teenagers pain is nessecary
i use to get whacked with a slipper of my mum which is now child abuse
hell my mother would be serving life right now if the laws that are in force today were about when i was a kid
how many people have grand parents who are disrespectfull and have been in and out of crime all their lives or go around spray painting walls etc
verry few if any and they used to get beaten with belts , caines and worse yet they survived and isnt it funny how people of today wish we had the life they had when they were younger
leave doors open all day without been robbed
walk down the street not fearing if the group of kids coming towards you are going to mug or spit on you
a police man walking a beat
many more things we want but are not prepared to do a damn thing about it apart from say things like
its not their fault their misunderstood or come from a poor family
the simple fact is kids are not hit enough today and if they knew to expect a good whallop off a slipper or belt they would think twice about vandalising a wall or somones car etc
there is a fine line between child abuse and punishement but that line has been moved so far towards the lenient side the punishment you are allowed to dish out is not worth anything and most likely only get the response of them rolling their eyes at you as if to say is that all you got
hitting a child with a slipper for vandalising a car is not child abuse
hitting a child with a slipper for no reason is child abuse
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