Oh Willow, please don't take any notice of what Pendy wrote, I for one hope she was being ironic.
I've been hurt by what people have wrote on here, and I suspect I've probably hurt people as well, but I've decided that people are quite entitled to think what they like.
I like me, and people whose judgement I respect seem to like me too.
Please reconsider, a lot of people would miss you.