[WillowTheWhisp]

Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle

EDIT: Pendy may also be upset herself when she reads this thread to see how much her comments you have taken personally and have hurt your feelings Willow Well I'm hoping she will

Perhaps, Tinkerbelle, perhaps. But she did say:

Yep - I'm sure a lot of kids (and adults) would be very hurt indeed, but it is TRUE.

Perhaps it's time to try the truth, rather than kindness and respect for some esoteric notion of "Human Rights".

which really doesn't sound like it.

Perhaps in a way it's good to know the truth and to know what she really thinks of fat people like me. I'd been under a false impression up to now and yes it is very hurtful but probably better to have it out in the open than to have the thoughts hidden behind a polite smile which gives the impression that the person behind the smile actually likes me when in fact they despise me for no better reason than my size and shape.