[Gayle]

I don't think it is intimidation over debates that stops people posting. Thing is, if you don't want to get involved in the heavy stuff you can post on the lighter threads.

I think it's because at first appearance it is a bit cliquey - there are a few of us who post quite often and have a sort of short hand or gossipy way of answering each other. Some people don't like to intrude - it's like the new kid at school syndrome where everyone else looks like they're in groups with mates.

So to all new members - just remember we're all sat here on our own, we've all been in the same position as you and we've all just got on with it and thrown ourselves in. In a months time you'll know us as well as we know each other - don't be put off because you're not the life and soul of the party immediately, I'm sure you will be soon!