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Originally Posted by chav1
i have a friend who has not seen his daughter for 3 years because the courts simply fail to force the mother to sort somthing out , even if teh mother breaks an order enforced by the courts it is very rare that the mother is puinished as the punishment is jail and teh courts are very reluctant to jail a mother , what shoudl happen is the mother should be thrown in jail and full custordy given to the father
when it comes to children the whole system is a joke , a prostitue addicted to drugs who neglects her child will be given help and preference over a father who works and has a healthy lifestyle
yes some women do need to use the court system for various genuine reasons but the system is so open to abuse by the mother it is ridiculous
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Yeh too right its open to abuse & is far too often that judgement happens before the case is set, i do concern with some judges desicions & to be honest there are only circuit judges in family law whom basicially are judges that can preside in many different cases they are not specialist lets say they overview law jack of all trades & yeh i think thats a problem because mis-judgements & facts being led to personal or popular view [publicity pressure] & even by the opposing councel, there should be some proffessional judges with specialist knowledge of family law practiced only as does barristers/solicitors specialise in certain aspect of law so should judges be so too & then but then it again come down to money & the law lords. In all 3 districts i know nearly most of the circuit judges [circuit being right they've all been pass the parcel in my case hence they are circuit judges] & got to know that they can differ in their approach too.
But back to the point is that its so open to abuse by faulting parties that the ones trying to do right have a lot to prove unfortunately, & i lost faith loads of times with the system till eventually the evidence proved but it was a battle that im glad i didnt give up on - my kids are far too important.