[SPUGGIE J]

Just because people dont go to church chaple temple mosque etc does not make them non believers. If not going to these places to comune with him was a mortal sin that sent you to Hell for eternity then my card is punched already.People see it their own way and were some are happy in a holy building then thats fine as it is for those who prefer to keep it a more private affair which could be construde as turning the other cheek to not attending as they are still believers.
The rules can be bent within reason and your soul shouldnt suffer for it as you are believing in the way best suited to yourself. J's sacrifice was the ultimate act of selflessness in so much as others could live and learn. I contentend that even non believers must have considered the question prior to non believing and can be saved if they believe on the deathbed so to speak. Hell can be seen or believed to be the ultimate deterrent to us all regardless of religion and all have their own version of damnation.
Its what you believe in your heart that matters not what others think you may or maynot believe. As we evolve and spread then are beliefs do the same and we are better for it. Ok some will take it to the extreme but then they are in the minority and will always stay the same. Enlightenment is what can make us or break us in the eyes f G. If the rules were kept ridged we would stagnate thus negating what G might want for us. All creations evolve regardless and all we hold dear follows the same track.