LOL Debbie i was like that i've only just got to my ideal weight & its took a long time to get there, i think a lot of it has been when i stopped worrying about it & accepted myself also lack of high stress then gradually im back to normal lol.
When i was a teen i was overweight & couldnt lose it - gave up accepted that but due to stresses at the time it gradually disappeared, didnt realise i had lost so much till i got chucked out on my ear with only clothes on my back, that tinks gave me what she thought were big jeans @ size 10, i thought a long shot but they fit so i'd gone down from a 16 - a 10 within months & lost just over 2 stone & ever since then hovvered at size 12 till my marraige breakdown & stesses of that i went down to my lowest of 8st - l fit in the skinny clothes i dreamed of but i looked & felt ill & been a battle to put it on 7 years in fact, to up by 1 1/2 st to get to my proper weight for height & build now know im supposed to be a size 14 & look & feel healthier for it, now hope i dont lose any nor put any on
im happy as i am
Though im not checking nor need the scales here i get mot'd at the docs once a year & they are quite surprised to find someone with right the BMI.