At the end of the day any parent would be as worried as hell and as Slinks pointed out a teenage tantrum is better than something a lot worse. WE may let our kids have more freedom than most of us had but with that comes theresponsibility of being absolutely certain that they are safe. Being picked up and dropped off at the house may seem like a crime to them but parents (tut tut willow for calling it a question for mums


) are better seeing them get in and out of the transport for their own piece of mind. Me I would be worried even if they are at a youth club because unless they are locked in whats to stop them sneaking out?
Stick by your guns Willow. Hope your dughter understands your reasons for it.
