[Doug]

OK, please understand this is my personal feeling on the matter and not a qualified response. You can’t just turn up and expect to get a clear and concise message; you yourself have to put some work in as well. Before you go to see a medium or a spiritualist church you must put some time aside to think of those you might want to hear from. Don’t think of silly things you want to ask, they have better things to do. If you are hurting for someone who has passed you’re much more likely to hear form them, but it’s not guaranteed.

More often with me it’s been my dad, my Grandma and my great, great grandfather who have communicated messages, mostly memories just to clarify that it is them, and I mean memories that only I can relate too, not just something pulled out of the air.

Often they are there around you, mostly in time of stress or pain, and you don’t need a medium for them to be with you, you just have to have a need. You don’t even need to know that they are there to receive healing, and healing can come in many forms. Including physical and mental health, comfort or in making a right decision, think of the times when you have faced difficulty and then just found the answer.

Why the hell should they do all the work for us. They have been here and done it, nobody helped them and they had it far harder than we will ever have it. It take a lot of energy for a spirit to communicate and often many will come together to get through to people, but please accept that they aren’t there for us to have an easy passage through life, we are here to learn from our lives on earth. And take this to heart; if we knew for certain what lay ahead, we would be topping ourselves left, right and centre.