No it doesn't make you sound like a gullible old f@rt.
It's lovely when people have these positive experiences, because that really is all we want to know, that these loved ones we thought so much of in life are still with us in spirit and that maybe one day we'll see them again when our time comes.
I've just never been lucky enough to have any positive experiences, only negatives that have left me doubting mediums, not their intentions which I believe are good intentions, just their actual ability ..... but maybe one day I will get my message that I want to hear so much