Just an update, I was lucky enough to be given His new mobile number today, which is a thai number (so deffo out there).
He actually answered it as well......however I think he was extremely surprised at hearing me ask him if he was enjoying his time spending our money!!...............I did get something out of him though, I think he said 'oh f***'..........lol
Its stupid really, but I feel so much better just knowing that he knows that I know where he is!!.......Does that make sense?