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Originally Posted by accymel
unless the parents put aside their selfishness & concentrate on the kids or better still make better judgements before having kids  |
That is my point exactly, but I didn't want to word it like that, I didn't want it to look like I was saying that people who have kids and seperate are selfish, every relationship is different ..... but yes there are some selfish people out there who should put their kids needs before their own.