[Doug]

Forgive me if this sounds condescending, it’s not my intention. I think we have to accept and understand that those that knew the family and those that didn’t will express their sympathy and personal feeling of grief differently, for some people, questioning or failing to understanding another’s person’s expression grief can be simply a matter of needing to share the common sense of loss we feel as individuals.

Silvermain if you find this matter difficult perhaps you should find someone to talk to, share your feelings if it helps you come to terms with this tragic episode.