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Originally Posted by MUMMIBOO
Well what a difficult thread and post to make!
I went for my first scan on Thursday i was 11 weeks pregnant with 3rd baby wanted very much we had been trying since December we managed to get pregnant in September we were soo excited,
Like i said i went for my first scan on Thursday only to be told that my baby was the size of a 9 week old and that its heart had stopped beating at around 9 weeks. I didnt have a clue i had no pain and no bleeding i couldnt believe what she was saying to me i had a picture from the scan and it looks perfect soo cute.
The midwife said my bodys not accepting i have lost the baby and is still feeding it thats why i still feel pregnant! I have been told to give it till Thursaday and see if my body rejects it on its own if not then medical intervention will be needed same thing as what happends when you have an abortion!.
I just cant see at the moment how people can just kill or get rid of children or the makings of them when there are people around who are trying and trying for children all the people who cant have them i know its not their problem but i just think for the right reasons then fair enough but just for the sake of it is wrong.
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MummiBoo I really do know what you are going through. I was 13 weeks pregnant when I went for my scan and they told me my baby had died at 8 weeks. I broke my heart for month's - I say month's because when I held my last born son!! ( I already had 1 perfect boy)- In a way I reasoned with the fact I lost that baby to get this perfect baby boy. I would never have had him if I had given birth to the baby I lost, because I only wanted 2 babies...... I have my 2 perfect boys now......god bless my baby I lost, but on lives my boy that I did have the fortune to have.
But I too don't agree with abortion......and 2 weeks after I miscarried the baby I sooooo wanted....someone had a abortion because she had a HOLIDAY ROMANCE one night stand and ended up pregnant.......and got rid.
