For what it's worth, I don't give a damn what people say about me or to me regarding what I post. I try not to be rude or really hurtful to anyone because, believe me, life's too short but I'll debate with you and tell you what I think if I disagree with you. If someone decides to be nasty to me I ignore it - nothing worse for the perpetrater than letting loose a poisoned arrow and getting no reaction.
I don't give much karma, I tend to forget it's there, and I would never, ever give negative or make a destructive comment, particularly in private. If I hate what you said I'll tell you so in public - but politely.
