[garinda]

It's a different problem, but similar in a way, in regard to childcare.

Both my brother and his wife work full-time, and both kids are in different private schools, which have longer holidays than any state schools. They are in the fortunate position to make that choice, and that is their decision, and they cut back on other things.

However they too struggle when it comes to holidays. The holiday club they attend in Spring Hill only takes children up to eleven, so for one of them this is the last time they will be going. Again all available family sitters work, except me. I help out when I can, but because of health reasons, I'm sometimes not fit too look after them, when they are dropped off at seven o'clock. It's difficult.

I know how hard it can be for two parents, and like I said can't even begin to understand how single parents manage, epecially ones who receive no help at all from absent partners.

Mel, I've been lucky enough to meet your children, and no matter how hard a struggle it is for you, take pride in the fact you have great children, and that they are a credit to you, and I wish there was someone willing to give you the help and support you deserve.