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WillowTheWhisp · 14-02-2007, 21:10

I have no problem with the idea of someone wanting to go out and enjoy themselves and if they have a child or even a young baby to get someone to baby sit for them when they go out. All people are different and some people can cope with looking after a baby full time and never having a break but some people can't and end up resenting the child (even a much loved child) who takes up all of their time and attention. To some just a short break on their own or with their OH is the battery recharger that keeps them going.

However, that doesn't have to mean spending all their money and then not knowing where the next meal is coming from. To me the child must come first, especially when it comes to something as basic as food. I too would be pretty miffed at someone scroungeing meals and then telling me all about their great night out.

14-02-2007, 21:10	#19
WillowTheWhisp Resident Waffler Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Accrington, Hyndburn Posts: 18,142 Blog Entries: 14 Liked: 14 times Rep Power: 1062	Re: Sick of it I have no problem with the idea of someone wanting to go out and enjoy themselves and if they have a child or even a young baby to get someone to baby sit for them when they go out. All people are different and some people can cope with looking after a baby full time and never having a break but some people can't and end up resenting the child (even a much loved child) who takes up all of their time and attention. To some just a short break on their own or with their OH is the battery recharger that keeps them going. However, that doesn't have to mean spending all their money and then not knowing where the next meal is coming from. To me the child must come first, especially when it comes to something as basic as food. I too would be pretty miffed at someone scroungeing meals and then telling me all about their great night out. __________________